Ugh. I hate the farking internet. This shall be a rant, no one needs to respond...just getting this off my chest.

So, after "closure" was reached with the OM on Monday, I thought NC might finally get a chance, and then maybe some work on the R could begin. One of the first steps out of withdrawal that my wife took was removing the OM from her MySpace roster of men, which happened a week or two before this "closure" conversation. I checked her MySpace today and he is back on there. She used this to "stalk" him when he wasn't talking to her. Now I have to wonder if the "closure" conversation has prompted more communication, or if she's just decided to stalk him again. I know that OM is trying to distance himself from her, but IMO she remains obsessed with him, despite her assertations that "it's over". I had promised not to read any of her email accounts as part of a trust-building exercise, and now I'm wondering if I'm being fooled again. She was able to do it for a year already, so I guess I'm pretty easy to fool. Why can't she see that this guy is no longer interested in her???? I know it's only been two months since D-Day, and we have a long way to go (if we're ever going to get anywhere), but this obsessive behavior sucks!

OK, rant over.