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Who am I? I am a nobody on a message board that spouted out an opinion that I should have kept to myself. I donno about that. Your opinion was just that, your opinion. So what? What I don't "get" is your attitude that the rest of us need your advice of how we should post ... as if you were the final authority on this subject. Without your seeming to lecture and scold here on this thread, I think BobPure would have NOT dug up that old post of yours. To be scolded about "disrespectful judgements" by you, and then reading an example of your posting .... well, it's not a very good example, is it? Is my 'wrongdoing' forgivable? Idonno... what wrongdoing you refering to? .... ask your husband bonasera! Pep <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
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Here is a part of a post to a newbie FWS in a thread from "In Recovery". The FWS said in a post before this that he deeply regretted what he had done and he wants to get his M back on track:
"You hurt her beyond reason and she will never truly recover. You are a low scum bag that deserves nothing and perhaps that is exactly what you will get."
Comments?
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Here is a part of a post to a newbie FWS in a thread from "In Recovery". The FWS said in a post before this that he deeply regretted what he had done and he wants to get his M back on track:
"You hurt her beyond reason and she will never truly recover. You are a low scum bag that deserves nothing and perhaps that is exactly what you will get."
Comments? My comment is why are you posting it here instead of to the person who posted it? What does this have to do with anyone here?
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Would it be too controlling if I suggested that his comment was inappropriate? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />
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Would it be too controlling if I suggested that his comment was inappropriate? If it is, consider me guilty. I just posted my feelings directly to the poster. I was very offended. Best regards, Scumbag GS
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If ever two were one, then we;
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Would it be too controlling if I suggested that his comment was inappropriate? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> JimmyMac, at last you have found a truly inappropriate comment! JACKPOT!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> I would rush right over there and set that poster straight! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />
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Keep up man! I raised that particular thread many posts ago, and the 'inappropriateness' has already been addressed in the thread itself. You need to address the question to the poster who made the remark, don't you think?
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Without your seeming to lecture and scold here on this thread, I think BobPure would have NOT dug up that old post of yours..
Right on the money Pep.
I felt the lesson in empathic posting techniques from her needed to be received in context by other readers.
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BlessedTime, This is totally off topic, so please forgive me, but I am wondering how old you are. Thanks, Susan <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
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[color:"navy"]Susan, I am 54 years old. We have 4 children. 3 daughters and 1 son. I am a grandma with 8 wonderful grandchildren. Our middle daughter's loving H and Daddy, was killed last summer in an automobile accident, leaving her with 3 little children to raise. The youngest was just 2 months old. His death has given us all a renewed appreciate of life and family. My H and I have been married for 36 years. My H is a forgiven, FWH. (D day was in August of 2003.) Love, Julie <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> P.S. I really am sorry for the post I wrote to Bob a year or so ago.
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And do you also go by Sarie or Sarah? Susan <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
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[color:"navy"] No, but I do remember Sarie and I have posted to her before. She is rather unforgettable because she was unwilling to repent and tell her husband. She argued and argued with people that were trying to help her. She even fooled us by telling us she DID tell her H about her affair. But at least she confessed that she lied to us. I think Mrs X did the same. Not nice. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> Sincerely, Julie <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
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And do you also go by Sarie or Sarah? Susan <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> Hmmmmm * strokes chin * I think you may be on to something Susan.
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[color:"navy"]Susan, I am 54 years old. We have 4 children. 3 daughters and 1 son. I am a grandma with 8 wonderful grandchildren. Our middle daughter's loving H and Daddy, was killed last summer in an automobile accident, leaving her with 3 little children to raise. The youngest was just 2 months old. His death has given us all a renewed appreciate of life and family. My H and I have been married for 36 years. My H is a forgiven, FWH. (D day was in August of 2003.) Love, Julie <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> P.S. I really am sorry for the post I wrote to Bob a year or so ago. [/color] Sarie .... why are you hiding?
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[color:"navy"]My H and I just came back from a walk with our dog.
I read some of Sarie's thread. I had printed the poem she had posted. I was thankful to have it when our son in law was killed this summer.
Our only son is alive and well, married with 2 children.
They live just 2 miles from us, on the family farm.
(My parents farmhouse.)
I remember way back, someone saying my writing style was similar to Sarie's. (The way I signed, Sincerely or Love, Julie.)
Love, Julie
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Whatever Susan <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
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Our only son is alive and well, married with 2 children.
They live just 2 miles from us, on the family farm.
(My parents farmhouse.) Sarie says "I need to leave now and get some of that expensive gas for the farm truck." hummmmmmm Susan (not as dumb as she looks) <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
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Sincerely or Love, Julie.)
Love, Julie awwwwww so cute bless your heart Pep <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />
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[color:"navy"]Pep and Susan.
Why are you being so sarcastic?
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