I just want to say that when I first posted here I did not realize this was the infidelity section. My H and I have not been unfaithful to one another, but we are certainly not doing things for one another to prevent that possibility. I wanted to thank those of you who responded to my plees for sanity and advice. I have also learned quite a bit just reading other people's stories and the advice. You seem to be a very knowledgable and giving group. Thanks and best wishes.
Michelle