I start at the begining. It started a yr and a half ago.

First it was all the porn he'd been hiding in the house. I was fine with it as long as he wans't hiding it, I like porn too but Its something we should do together. after months of fighting about it he finally got rid of it all.

Then it was the phone calls from and too "friends" that I knew nothing about. That stopped or so I thought

Then on V-Day last yr while I was at work ( as a firefighter working 24hr shifts) while he was supposed to be out getting me a gift, he asked the girl out whom sold him my gift, told her if was for a friend. and the day before Vday while I was at work again he took her out on a date. ON V-day he called her and told her that he had to go out of town and wouldn't be able to speek to her for a few months. never admitting he was with someone else. I had to call and talk to her tell her the truth. she said " I really liked him"

and NOW its the 800 900 #'s always calling sex chat lines. he says its just to have someone to talk to. I've caught him so many times and he again says I'll never do it again.

when I ask him why he does these things his answer is always " I DONT KNOW"

What am I suposed to think? Do? Say? I'm lost. I've never delt with this before. and I am still so in love with him. I used to think he could never do any wrong. he's a smooth talker and seemed to be a great guy all these yrs.

Sounds like a sexual addiction. I know that there's a lot of information in the forums about this. Maybe do a search... I wish I knew how to post a link.

Maybe one of the old-timer MB's will help out.

Cat