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Hi,

I have been with my significant other for almost 11 years now. Recently, I have discovered infidelity on his part but he will not fess up to it. I gave him a chance to end it therefore accepting his mistake, but he said nothing was going on but it has not ended as I recently heard the woman leaving him messages after like 4 months of finding out and confronting him. In my mind, I think the best thing is to end it, since I have no commitment to him and no children are involved yet even though the love is still there. I just have a feeling that someone like him will never change, especially since he can't accept his fault and is apparently still after this other woman. I've thought of counseling, but this makes no guarantees right? Any and all advice is greatly appreciated.

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Stick with us, and we will help you. You might want to post on general questions. There is much more traffic there, and you will get more input.

Your sweetie is like most of the other WS's. They usually deny and lie about things. Read up about Plan A, and do it for a couple of months. That is the starting place.


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