Angi,
Yes, FWH means Former Wayward Husband. You'll find the link for all the abbreviations at the top of this forum Acronyms, smilies, etc..
My H gave me almost the exact same answers to the "do you miss her,,do you think about her" question as yours has given you. "No,,I don't think about her until you mention her." Now,,, I don't for one minute believe he didn't think about her at all. Afterall, my H had a long term "secret friendship" with her prior to it becoming a PA. I do believe he didn't go through a serious "withdrawal" like some FWS's do. He didn't see her everyday, every week and sometimes not for months so she was not a regular part of his daily routine. Perhaps this is true for your H also.
Angi, you are going to have questions,,lots of them. Your hurt and pain are new,,still raw. You should seek answers to your questions but you need to plan your time to ask alittle better! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Asking when he's getting ready to leave for work is not good planning and doesn't give you time to discuss any answer he might have given! Or when the kids are home and might interupt or hear you talking. Not good. Your H needs to be able to feel SAFE when he talks to you. Safe from being heard by others, safe to have enough time to explain his answers if he chooses to do so, and safe that you will not flame out at his replies and throw this back in his face.
Find an appropriate time to talk to him. Hitting him up with new questions every 10 minutes is going to get old REAL quick. And frustrating for both of you. Instead of asking your questions, write them down,,make a list,,and when the appropriate time comes,,ask the most important ones first. If necessary, write down his answers so you don't ask the same things over and over.
Explain to him WHY you need to know the answers to these questions. Perhaps read
Joseph's Letter to him. That's the best explaination I've ever read on my many years here on MB. Maybe he'll understand you have no desire to keep bringing this up and you get no perverse pleasure in details but YOU need to know.
Good luck and keep posting. It DOES get better. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />