Hello all,

My WS and I are at a stand still, she just will not commit to working on anything because she say's she just doesn't love me intimately anymore and she doesn't see those feelings coming back. Although she says she does love me, likes to be with me etc...
I haven't posted for a while so here is a brief history;
She had the first A over a year ago(3-4 weeks), we seperated for about 3m but had lots of contact, pretended we were working things out but had second brief A about three months ago.
I beleive she has maintained no contact but can't be positive, we et along well but she just gets annoyed when I bring up the topic of working on things or counselling etc...
I told her I did not want to continue if we don't try becaused I'm not here for a roomate, but she won't leave and she can't afford to stay by herself.....and as long as we are not on the topic of reconciliation we get along really well.
I just do not know how to proceed, it seems like my plan A is just going on for ever with no results? Advice please?