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Strange, strange things. So, we did prom. WH took the pictures etc as posted on my urgent thread. He refused to go out with us and left the house, DD and I went to a movie.
When the movie was finished, I texted messaged WH that he should have come because the movie was really funny. I did like the movie (Hitch) and had decided in advance that I was going message that even if it was lousy. Text messaging is a new thing with us. I suspect OW turned WH on to it. Initially, I didn't like texting but I now see it has it's uses.
So, we've all slept late at our house. It's around 1 p.m. DD and I just ate lunch before going to the mall to return the tux. As I stuck my cellphone in my pocket while preparing to leave, I noticed I had a text message. It's from WH. All it says is "I'm very depressed."
Interesting..........
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Me: BS
XCH: Clueless
2-DS: Bigger than me
1-DD: Now also bigger than me!
5/6: Personally served CH with divorce papers
6/6: CH F? wants to time to see if M can be saved
7/6: FCH reenters our lives to work on marriage but secretly signs papers to start divorce...what's that about?
Mediation set for November
Final dissolution in January 2007.
2008 and beyond: Life goes on...
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GG its important you don't protect WH from the consequences of his actions and choices.
"Dear H.
I am not surprised your affair is making you depressed. End it, come home and we can work together on rebuilding a happy life together. "
Or similar. Almost all active WS seek sympathy and permission from their BS at some point during their affair.
I told Squid I ws sorry she was miserable, but that it was her choice to arrange her life in a miserable manner. Should she coose to stop her affair, she could share in our family adventures and not be miserable.
In a nice way, but very clearly.
All blessings.
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