Hi Cali,

(sorry for using plan a and b forum, couldn't get into general)
I was told that you had a similar situation.

My wife's a school teacher, found out about affair 3 months ago. she was very remorseful for a few weeks, than she shut down. I've caught her in a few additional lies and the story of her affair doesn't fit most of the facts that I do know. She still works at the school, he's 3 doors down, she can't transfer until the end of the school year, and she won't park in the other parking lot. She claims it's over.

Also, she claims the affair was only phone calls and one date alone. They met at least two other times that I know of after work with the staff.

She's just hateful when I try to talk about my concerns and her affair. She says she's not sure she wants to be married, but doesn't want me to sign the divorce papers.

I'm still lost anything you can add would be appreciated.