First my wife has told me that she does not want to cancel the divorce completely just delay the hearing. I guess she might be just thinking about the money but I am afraid that she may just want an easy way out. The other situation that has come up is that I no longer have a place to live. She does not like the idea of me coming home because of the complicated nature of the problems we need to work through. I have to admit that I am not all that comfortable with the idea of going home already without any counseling but you have to do what you have to do. Do you think these things are setbacks or problems or is this all fairly normal? I would love to get our lives moving again but we really do have alot to get through. Please let me know if you have had anything like this happen to you! Please help! I want to have hope but so many things about this just seem to give little hope.

Confused,

Just checking in on you. I get frustrated too easily with this new board because it logs me off if I don't remember to use the different browser, so don't read or post as much as I used to.

Are you still doing okay? I know this latest post didn't have a very positive sound.