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I posted the other day. My ww of 20 years is now going to the bathroom 40 times a day to send cell phone text messeges to a guy at work. She locks the door,and wont even leave the phone out in plain view.
She wants to go out with a girl from work,and I suggested that I go too. They agreed,but she still wont get rid of the cell phone. If I bring it up she yells,and gets mad.
This cheating ,and sneaking has been going on for 17 years. I want to stay married. We have 2 teen-agers. They are disgusted in her. What is plan b? What do I do?
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Accept her how she is and ask yourself why you have lived like this for 17 years. You are not a victim, MisterSteve, you are a volunteer. Why do you choose to live like this?
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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The first thing you do is read the rest of this site and the articles (not just this message board). Susan
Money can buy you a fine dog, but only love can make him wag his tail.
~ Kinky Friedman
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