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#1364975 04/28/05 05:11 PM
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Just had to tell you what a great job you did on Dr.Phil. You were so composed and verbalized your thoughts and feelings so clearly. Way to go.

Hope things are going well for you.

Beth


Married 10 years Three Children: Son(8),Daughter(6),Daughter(3) DDay - May 6, 2004 False Recovery Begins - June 1, 2004 OW Pregnancy Revealed - June 27, 2004 False Recovery #2 Begins - August 30, 2004 OC born Feb. 25, 2005 Have chosen to have C DDay AGAIN -- June 10,2005 - Found out contact w/OW had continued from Sept-Feb Recovery Begins (again - let's hope it is real this time) July, 2005 C w/OC on indefinite hold while M is worked on
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Thank you for the kind words. It was really hard watching that today. Still have some anger towards xOW and really wanted to go kick her a** today but I'm controlling myself! It was taped 2 months ago and so much has changed since. H and I are in a much better place in our R now. Our follow up show is scheduled to air May 23 and will be a much more pleasant show.


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XOW is married also, we were ALL best friends, were being key word!
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You looked great Michele, very pretty, but even more importantly, you handled yourself with real class!! That had to be hard, to appear on the show,,and doubly hard,,to watch it, now that you and your H are in a better place.

Did you H watch it today with you? Was it difficult for him to see?

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Michele, you looked great, handled yourself well and a very beautiful woman. Glad you aren't still dealing with the same sitch, it was very hard to watch.


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Michele,
I just wanted to tell you how much I admire your strength! I don't think I could have sat there while the OW and MY H let loose with that much verbal diarrhea, not without thumping one of them hard and repeatedly till loss of consciousness. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smirk.gif" alt="" />

Very well done of you! You made both of them look like complete FOOLS!!!


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Hi Michele,

Part two is on now, but I have to wait until NotTooLost gets home tonight. Watching part one was kind of hard for NTL and I, hearing so much familiar garbage coming out of their mouths! It felt like 99% of what OW said I've heard too, and I could painfully relate to almost everything H had to say (in the past for me, and hopefully for him too!).

Looking forward to part two and even more to the follow-up show. Prayers and best wishes to you and everyone!


me FWH 34 BW 36 M 10/92;DD 10,6 PA-7/92;8/96 PA 2/04-8/21/04 Recov 8/21/04 Relapse 11/04 OW Preg 12/23/04 BW Filed D 2/10/05 NC OW 2/23/05 R 3/11/05 D stopped! 4/29/05 OC Born 8/18/05
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nutcase3,
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I don't think I could have sat there while the OW and MY H let loose with that much verbal diarrhea, not without thumping one of them hard


I agree, nutcase3!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/shocked.gif" alt="" />

But did you notice how the camera would shift to Michele when they said something particularly senseless? Michele's expressions were priceless and said more than 1,000 words!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Great job Michele! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />


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