I am lovin me some Notonlywords* today!

Happy Friday to you gurl! Go out and treat yourself (and get the SPQ book while you are at it).

Susan <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />

P.S. Get your husband to walk with you sometimes. It's great time together. I have been in your very shoes (and Pep has helped me much the same as you) and walking with my husband was and still is good. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

Susan,

Gosh, I am blushing! I'm humbled!

I would love to walk with RH....but his knees won't let him. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />

We live in the "boonies" so I'll have to look that book up online and order it! Thanks for the recommendation!

I have been watching Pep since day one....and recently, you as well. I remember thinking early on, "I wanna be like Pep when I grow up!" Something about the two of you just rings so true and genuine, and I wanted what you have! Still working on it, but am well on my way!
<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

I love it when she(pep) comes into a serious thread, jumps out from behind the wall, puts her hands to her ears, sticks out her tongue and says "na-na na-na na-na! plbbbbbbbbbb!"

Reminds me not to take myself so seriously.

NOW

P.S.

re the duct tape scholarship....my daughter said you don't even have to use the money for college, so there probably is no age limit! I'll try to get more info....she was doing research for a school project and has all the papers with her at school right now.

NOW

Yep, I watched her from day one too. She has a way of getting to the nitty gritty that works for me (and many others).

After 3 years I had the pleasure of meeting her and she's even better in person than on the boards if you can imagine that. (Now Pep is the one blushing <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />)

What bonnies do you live in? What state?

Susan <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />

P.S. Please don't tell me you live on a farm and have 8 grandchildren. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" />

Susan <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />

[Butting in here]

not ONLY words:

Let me congratulate you on "finding" a way to handle your issues with living around your OP.

This shows real growth and real change on your part.
You NO longer seem to be acting like as you said......a Victim.

I for one......am Proud of YOUR positive PROGRESS. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />

In addition,
you seem to be making some real insight in how you should / shouldn't handle other people.

Truly, its not your Job to "stew" endlessly (debating inside yourself) what OTHERS intentions are or aren't.

This is a real breakthrough to NOT sit by yourself and Try to Figure Out...what the OM's ANGLE is.

Cause ultimately ....it doesn't matter.
If he wants you back.
If he hates you.
If he's messing with your head.
Something else.

NONE of that matters.....cause he is NO LONGER your issue or problem.

He is becoming "irrelevant". (as he should be)

NICE Job in beginning to figure this "stuff" out for yourself. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Indeed, you are the ONE that needs to "get it".
And here you are doing Just That! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
Keep it UP!

Hot diggidy dayum! I'm game!

Also NOW, last night I went back and read a few of your older posts and I just wanna say "WOW" ! How encouraging to watch your growth.

You ain't "flailing about" anymore gurl! You have found yourself!

Welcome to Queendom!

Susan <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />

I agree... NOW* has grown into queen-status for sure

but please

tell me you are NOT going to construct your *tiara* out of duct tape

now that's just wrong

Pep <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />

Oh no, NOT my tiara. My OUTFIT. Please do NOT say costume.

Susan <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />

P.S. Sounds like a plan for next year....I'm just trying to thank of how we would sit down to get there. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />