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Yikes!! Enter this convo w/ caution!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" />

BTW Pep, I agree with the others here in singing your praises! You are a deeply compassionate person. I would be very interested in learning the type of patients you work with, although I already have a feeling! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> Your other post is so over my head and thoughts at the moment, I have to stew it over to reply!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" />

Now this had me worried: "They have a constant need for admiration. They view all events narcissistically in terms of the events impact on them. Their behavior is often impulsive. These individuals may be completely lacking in empathy, unable to see anything from another person's viewpoint."

This describes my WH. When he is the fog and into the A he is very much this...it is all about "H H H H H"!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" /> Now I say that it is WH behavior, but when he is clearer, there is more empathy, guilt and attempts to see frm other's views, however, I still do not think he gets that part much at all!

Thank goodness for GS's post though, cause (answering for him based on the last 18 yrs) H has 20/30 of those questions "Yes", so I guess we are back to a "sexual addict".

I think that is a "lesser of the two evils" since addictions can be overcome, but a basic personality flaw is alot harder to deal with IMNSHO! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />


BW, 33 WH 36 Md 14.5 yrs DD13, DS11, DD4 Tired of counting d-days, D proceeding 7/05 "Pride can break a man right down from iron. Twist him 'round 'round and tatter up a soul Handprint of God on the small of my back my second chance, my second chance. I'll bend a knee my friend, I'll bend a knee... Lay It Down say it's all my fault, all my fault. Say I believe, I believe lay it down. This the hour of my healing, of my healing, yeah my heart, my heart redeemed."
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What the heck is that?

"in my not so honest opinion"

"in my nutty slap happy opinion"

??? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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IMNSHO: In my not so humble opinion! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />


BW, 33 WH 36 Md 14.5 yrs DD13, DS11, DD4 Tired of counting d-days, D proceeding 7/05 "Pride can break a man right down from iron. Twist him 'round 'round and tatter up a soul Handprint of God on the small of my back my second chance, my second chance. I'll bend a knee my friend, I'll bend a knee... Lay It Down say it's all my fault, all my fault. Say I believe, I believe lay it down. This the hour of my healing, of my healing, yeah my heart, my heart redeemed."
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or it could be "I mean no shyyyt here, ok?" LOL! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />


BW, 33 WH 36 Md 14.5 yrs DD13, DS11, DD4 Tired of counting d-days, D proceeding 7/05 "Pride can break a man right down from iron. Twist him 'round 'round and tatter up a soul Handprint of God on the small of my back my second chance, my second chance. I'll bend a knee my friend, I'll bend a knee... Lay It Down say it's all my fault, all my fault. Say I believe, I believe lay it down. This the hour of my healing, of my healing, yeah my heart, my heart redeemed."
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