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WS wont give up om cell phone
#1365611 04/30/05 02:06 PM
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My ww has had an affair going at work,and on cell phone he got her for 2 months. She only sees him at work,but I told her to give back the phone,and she did ,but took it back again . She hides the phone,and wont let me see the messeges. Should I break the cell,so I dont suffer anymore this weekend,or leave it there ,and tell her to give it back on Monday. I wanted to have a nice weekend,but it is ruined,and she cant wait to go back to work Monday to see the om.
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MISTERSTEVE #1365612 04/30/05 02:10 PM
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I don't think breaking the phone will be the solution to a nice weekend.

Don't make her wait until Monday...I'd tell her to be on her way today. She could pack her stuff and phone included and go let him take care of her.

Do you have kids? Is she able to support herself?

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I told our 2 teen-agers about this cell phone guy this morning,and they are disgusted,and said they would stay with me. My ww ,and I pay the rent,and neither of us can afford it alone. Who moves out? DOES THE OTHER GUY MOVE IN? She said she would give up the kids OUT OF ANGER. What now?
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MISTERSTEVE #1365614 04/30/05 02:33 PM
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Allow her to move out, MisterSteve. You should stay in the home with the kids. If she wants to carry on her affairs, she should do it from her own pad.

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