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I've had this crazy feeling of wanting to tell Xow, when she and H had the A and she thought H was faithful to her(HA,HA) that the whole time he was with her he was still seeing me, and that's one of the reasons I never gave up on our M, I always knew we would find our way back to each other, and we oviusly did.
married 13yrs-02/02/93
A(about2-3wks) ofSept. 03
almost 3yrs. of sucessful recovery, and getting strongger everyday
d-6/93
s-2/93
ss(oc)-6/04
God and True Love Rule
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Joined: Oct 2004
Posts: 217
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I did. She couldn't believe that he was lying to her ... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />
Now, I'm dying to tell her that we are dating since January ... but just keeping my cool ...
me-34
xH-38
DD 10/03
D-day 11/03 (cellphone)
Talked-Day 01/04
H left-02/04
Divorce-05/04
xH left -false recovery 1 week- 08/04 -told about OC
OC-07/04
xH left -false recovery 6 weeks- 12/01/04
12/02/04 DESTRUCTION OF MILY MUST END
1/17/05 - Started dating
11/05 - CS and visitation established at Court
02/28/06 - xH moves back after 2 yrs!
10/16/07 - asked xH to leave - he's still in a relationship with OW
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Joined: Jan 2005
Posts: 160
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I have confronted OW on phone a couple of times. I have to admit both times I was left feeling like a raving lunatic trying to prove he loved me and not her. I can't say that it really did any good other than to blow off some steam. The only thing that really gets the message through is H actions (and non-actions toward her. But sometimes you can't just stand by.
Married 10 years
Three Children: Son(8),Daughter(6),Daughter(3)
DDay - May 6, 2004
False Recovery Begins - June 1, 2004
OW Pregnancy Revealed - June 27, 2004
False Recovery #2 Begins - August 30, 2004
OC born Feb. 25, 2005
Have chosen to have C
DDay AGAIN -- June 10,2005 - Found out contact w/OW had continued from Sept-Feb
Recovery Begins (again - let's hope it is real this time) July, 2005
C w/OC on indefinite hold while M is worked on
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