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#1365827 05/01/05 01:00 PM
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Tempest said the following in a above mentioned post...

some of our other users have been advocating viewing the forum in flat mode,

Well I did try this....I layed down on the floor and made myself as flat as I possibly could and still had problems with the new forum.....

I think that it's possible that expanded topic view might be a problem as well

It is, I have proof, because I then ate a whole bag of peanut m-n-m's while posting...and while I'm pretty sure I expanded a little...

I still can't be ARK^^ even though I found my old password...and it says welcome ARK^^ with my lovely upcarrots...yes upcarrots is the techno geek name for ^^

but when I log in as ARK ^^ if and when I try to respond to a post it takes me to an error page....and wants me to email somebody or other....with what went wrong and post some curly url that says how I got there...but I don't know how I got there....and i don't know what went wrong...so I am speechless...(I know hard to believe)


I'll keep trying though...
and am trying my hardest to embrace change....

maybe I should lay flat and EAT m-n-m's at the same time and that way I would expand in a flat direction....perhaps that would help...

So even though it's pretty much all Greek to me.....

I just wanted to show in action my example of trying to embrace change and to show WEAVER I am not AS confused as she professes me to be....

ARK^^

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Would I be banned if I threw a tomato at her? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />


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maybe I should lay flat and EAT m-n-m's at the same time and that way I would expand in a flat direction....perhaps that would help..
Good idea, Ark. I'll try this and let you know if it works. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />


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"upcarrots"? I thought they were eyebrows or birds..... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


me31 h(fw)35 dd13 DD H's ONS june'04 H left Aug11'04 found out about OW aug14'04 H came home Dec28 1st recovery started in Feb 05 Apr. 8 continued contact discovered ow and i confront Wh, H chooses marriage Am I a fool?
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Hi carrotless,

"but when I log in as ARK ^^ if and when I try to respond to a post it takes me to an error page"

That happened to me too until I had the system assign me a new password for my nic. It assigned me something pretty close to bigbutt and I don't want to mess with it again <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> .

I think the real problem, though, is that you didn't share your peanut m&m's! This is a group--we don't fix ourselves, or the forupm, by ourselves. I thought you of all people would have known that. I'll help you--pass 'em over <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" /> .

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Melody lane queried...

Would I be banned if I threw a tomato at her?

ofcourse you would...

ARK^^

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Melody lane queried...

Would I be banned if I threw a tomato at her?
What if she threw Peanut M&Ms?


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pebbles,

they would bounce off my FLAT screen and hit her in the eye....

ARK^^

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have you tried this...

So, I did the following:

Open Norton
Click on Ad Blocking
Click on Configure
Click on Advanced
Click on Add Site type in www.marriagebuilders.com
Click on Global Setting
Highlight marriagebuilders on the left hand side
Under Information about visited sites click Permit.

It may vary depending on the version of Norton you have


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Who's Norton??

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In nursing terms, norton is an antiVIRUS.


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Pebbles, don't be tempting Ark to cast stones!

Susan <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />


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ark....do you have Norton Anti-virus or some other protective software? Evidently the "new" MB is viewed suspiciously by some of the anti-virus stuff...and it helps to "go around" the protection.

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"upcarrots"? I thought they were eyebrows or birds..... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Up carrots? I thought they were relics from the past.... you know like those 'cross your heart' bras from the 50s? LOL!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Ok Ark, you are definitely in 1 of your moods. Waz up?

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show WEAVER I am not AS confused as she professes me to be....

I don't think it worked Ark! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

I have never seen such a smart lady have so much trouble with a new forum.

And this just tickles me to no end!

Is the the first time you read the instructions, TODAY after all this time???? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Yep, get the tomato's Mel, I'll bring the camera and I think there are those amongst us who would bring the crown! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

I still don't think she's figured out where pasties go! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Maybe there is a reason why you are "carrotless" right now!
Good one LB!

Now don't be getting yourself all in a tizzy over this Ark, and start spewing that hate word all over the place again.

<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Too funny!

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Ark put in a test with her ^^ and I saw it. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> I tried to post a response to her on her post and got booted out. Then when I went back in, her post is gone. Vanished?!?!? Some sort of 'up carrot' conspiracy? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/shocked.gif" alt="" />

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Ark put in a test with her ^^ and I saw it. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> I tried to post a response to her on her post and got booted out. Then when I went back in, her post is gone. Vanished?!?!? Some sort of 'up carrot' conspiracy? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/shocked.gif" alt="" />

Then that would imply that it isn't her tendency toward confusion, it is the dang forum's software.

Shoot!

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Hello, ark^^,

I have sent e-mail to the account you have listed in your new (ark) profile.

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Sorry, all,

That was me testing ark^^'s account problem.

Apologies for the confusion. Orchid, you are MUCH too quick for me. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

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<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> Now what ever happened to that 'winking icon'? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Hope it wasn't banned for being 2 suggestive. LOL!!!

T, you are doing a great job. I know I don't say it 2 u and the other mods much but thanks for your support.

This place has definitely been a lifesaver for many..... and in so many flavors. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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