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Space -

You don't know how many women would LOVE to have a husband like you!

Now, back to marriagebuilding.

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Hi, space.

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AND that ALL of her friends have known it forever and were wondering when SHE would wake up.
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Let me give you a quick translation on that one.

Some of her friends are facilitating her affair.

All the best,
Gimble


-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
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Thanks WAT, Believer and Gimble!

WAT-I'm trying to do just what you say. It took me by surprise the first time it happened...when she fed it to our first C. And it hurt, because she knows how hard I struggled as a young man to over come the stereotype...and the soul searching it led me through to KNOW it's not who I was. NOW, the woman I love is using it against me...it's like I'm 16 years old all over again. I try to ignore it as much as I can but inside it makes me sad.

Believer-I keep trying to tell myself the same thing!! I hope that I can repair my marriage...that is my first priority. BUT, in an effort to stay "bucked-up," I remind myself that I AM a catch!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

Gimble-I can guarantee that the friends are facilitating the affair--and the decision to leave. Her boss is one of the prime facilitators. Her other friends can't even look me in the eye when I see them. Of course, I don't help because I smile broadly at them but let my eyes stay as hard as flint! I'm good at that!!

I appreciate the feedback. I look forward to more advice and guidance from you guys.

Space

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