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Hi all,
He is trying to end it with ow but she is like flypaper.
What works best? Letter? Phone call?
Shul
Love never fails.
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bluntness bordering on rudeness written and sent registered mail prefered Pep <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
Last edited by Pepperband; 05/02/05 11:57 AM.
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Hitman / cooler. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />
[color:"blue"]OR [/color]
Cancel All phones, pagers, emails ect,...then:
Quit, MOVE (unlisted)...& NO forwarding Address!
Fooling people is serious business, but when you fool yourself it Becomes Fatal.
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How 's this:
OW,
We are done. You may have someone pick up the camper on Saturday. Do not contact me ever again, for any reason.
Signed,
Shul's husband
Love never fails.
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Hi there,
What works best is a formal no contact letter that spells out the ending of the affair. Phone calls, meetings, letting her down gently etc. are far too much contact. Even the letter is "some" contact but the minimum necessary to accomplish the goal. Anything more....is too much and likely to create hope and flypaper.
Good Luck.
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