Today I decided to cal OMW and see what was going on in their household. Sounds very much like mine. She descriped the mood as quiet. He's done nothing to help her with her trust issues. She's not at all happy. She doesn't considor divorce because of children and religous reasons. She was surprised to hear things are going so bad for me too. She said she sees us in church and a few functions. Thats called 'keeping up appearances'.

She gave me some insight into what makes him tick. He loves the being involved with the school. His primary motive is to get that pat on the back, be the center of attention. Sounds familuar too.

All in all it was disapointing to me. I thought they were getting along much better and he was removed as a threat. She is tired of watching him - who he's with what he's doing, etc. She just keeps herself busy with kids and family. Sounds like she found her own plan A. I asked her about MC and she said if he asked she'd go. I told her to ask him. I don't think she will.

Anyway it was nice talking with her and she invited me to feel free to call. She enjoyed talking about things. SHe offered to speak with my wife, I took her up on it as my wife has been anxious to talk with her.

Seems we're living parallel lifes here. Must be something to this WS stuff.