Hi everyone,
Since i found out about my H 3 month A about four months ago, we have become so close. we found this love i never felt before.i can actully feel how much he loves me.My problem is it did take a long time at least three months for the whole truth to come out. He did get a new job and he puts me first and our children.He never did this before.Before we never said i love you we had a hard time talking about feelings.Now thats all i hear.This was a PA five times. He never loved her.but it did takes a while for him to admitt it was the five times.He just wants to make me happy. How do i let him? WE our now open with each other.I am happier than ever. I just don't know how to let it go and not let the fact that it took almost until now to get out the whole truth about the PA. I know once is already to many. He said he could'nt risk losing what we built.I had the truth all but how many times and he did go to her house when he said he did'nt.How do i let it go i know he will make me happy. I know he loves me. I did'nt know this before. We both said it felt like we were just there for no reason other than our children now we are there for each other.

ANYADVICE LL

LL - I have a feeling you might get a warm welcome on the "Recovery" forum. Your situation sounds hopeful, you are both making an effort and you are coping with the situation in such a positive fashion. Good luck.