Ok be gentle. I haven't posted in a long time because it has been way way past time to plan b and I haven't. So what happens if I don't plan B. What happens if I wait to Plan B until August 11 when my kids start school -- (less daycare money to fork out). Is it too late now anyway?

What would be YOUR purpose for Plan B?

Therein lies your answer.

Pep

Well, I waited to Plan B.

Just when I went into Plan B...my husband had met a girl just a week or so before that...so my Plan B was a blessing to him.

If I had done it earlier..it might have made a difference (to my marriage)...as it was, Plan B was just what he was looking for at the time I did it.

But..there's different ways of looking at this. Plan B certainly didn't make a difference in my marriage (if anything, it made things worse because of my timing)...but maybe in the end it was for the best. Maybe I was fighting for something I shouldn't have been fighting for.

And Plan B may have been a blessing to my H...but it was doubly a blessing for me--marriage or no marriage. I found that while I generally missed my H, I didn't miss talking to him at all. I did not miss the flip-flopping or the constant ability to explain away every good feeling for me....

I am a little concerned, because just by the nature of your question, I can tell you probably don't have a PLAN, and are thinking that a "Plan B" as prescribed by Harley, or anyone else is some magical weapon that will make your WH come back. I am not being harsh here, but I would echo another's posters sentiment and ask you what do you hope to accomplish by doing a pLan B in August? You must know up front, that a PLAN B will not necessarily bring your WH back, it may not. As whether it is "too late", I have no idea. I suspect that if you are willing to live in the obvious misery of an affair now untill August, then it will NEVER be too late for you. Maybe your WH, but not you.

Best wishes,

LM