Last night before he got home from work, I typed him a nice LONG letter of how I felt about his upcoming birthday. (it is today.) I told him the spoiled Brat in my can't see making his day SO special when he Ruined mine. (that is they day he chose to admit OW.)

Anyhow...
I told him exactly how i felt. Including the contact from last week, regardless of WHO talked to her it was WRONG! I told him his gift was an open door. he gets to choose if he wants to go In or out. I also told him it was his final chance to tell ALL with no farther consequences. ANY information I find out from hear on out will be considered lying & It will be over. He said I know everything. Time will tell.

I did print out a copy of deeplysorry's "My realization last week - may help other fws". I asked him to read it. Hope it might turn on a light.

Thanks everyone for everything!
-angi