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Just a quick question.
Is it still considered an affair if everyone knows about it? Is it still adultry?
Here are the conditions. Still officially married. OM still officially married. We are all seperated and living in seperate accomodations. All family members know about it on all sides. D-day was about 4 months ago.
What is your definition of an affair?
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An affair is a romantic relationship between a married person and another person other than her/his spouse. It doesn't matter if you are seperated or how many people know, an affair is an affair.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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An affair is a romantic relationship between a married person and another person other than her/his spouse. It doesn't matter if you are seperated or how many people know, an affair is an affair. And if they all end up divorced so the two unfaithfuls can marry, then it becomes "a marriage that started as a seedy affair." And people will remember that for a long, long time. ~ Snow
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An affair is a romantic relationship between a married person and another person other than her/his spouse. It doesn't matter if you are seperated or how many people know, an affair is an affair. And if they all end up divorced so the two unfaithfuls can marry, then it becomes "a marriage that started as a seedy affair." And people will remember that for a long, long time. ~ Snow Exactamundo!
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Some areas of life do not need shades of grey. This is such.
If you're married...whammo. You are married. If you divorce, then you are single to remarry or date.
Any questions?
me:37 BS; s:7;
xh:38; OW:26;eloped w/OW 1 wk after D: 12/29/03. OC born 3/17/04. Happy! Blessed to be the mother of a wonderful son..great profession..Life's good!
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