OK, my H was gone all day yesterday with a friend of his (it's OK; this friend doesn't screw around). H got home at about 11 pm last night. I was POd because he hadn't hugged or kissed me at all yesterday--well, actually, he'd only kissed me 3 times since Monday. <BR>Anyway, I didn't lovebust and didn't comment on the lack of affection. Today, he made up for the lack of affection today. <P>Now, here's the weird part. H told me that he took a Viagra last night, but went to sleep in his chair. I asked him where he got the Viagra. He said that another friend of his gave it to him. The friend told H that he'd heard that H couldn't "go very long." I asked H where the friend would get something like that, because I had never commented on our lovemaking in anyway. H said, "I don't know. I told him that I hadn't had any trouble--that I damn near f*** myself to death."<P>My H has had trouble being able to make love to me, but that problem hasn't occurred in about 6 months or so. And, yes, he does "go on" for quite a while--I think because of his health condition.<P>Now, since I haven't discussed our sex life with anyone (and H knows that I would rather die than have anyone (especially OW) know that he didn't want to have sex with me.), who could have been talking????? Could it be (gasp!!!) the OW?????? It's possible, as our friend is also a friend of hers.<P>So!! Do you guys think the OW may have done a major love-buster????? She was pretty angry, so could she call herself getting back at H for dumping her?<P>I fervently hope that she has been running off at the mouth. That is one thing guaranteed to really upset my H and make him very angry. <P><BR><p>[This message has been edited by Sweetpea (edited August 16, 1999).]

hahaahha, i think it would make ALL men angry! boy, i sure HOPE it was her who mentioned it. Is *that* something men usually discuss? hmmmm

Well, being the "macho man" that he is, I don't think H would be likely to confide any problems like that to other folks.<P>However, it does come to mind that maybe some of the problems last year were due to undiagnosed diabetes---and maybe he couldn't do much better with OW than with me. <P> I've wondered if the affair was an effort to reassure himself of his manhood--to see if he performed better with a new partner. I just wish he would talk to me about things that bother him.<P>Anyway, H hasn't expressed any anger toward me. In fact, he hasn't expressed any anger at all about somebody telling his friend that. That's sorta weird to me. But, I figure that he's not expressing anger toward me because he knows I didn't do it, and he's not expressing anger toward anyone else, cuz then I'd know he'd be screwing around. Like I don't already KNOW it now!! HAH!!<P>Oh, well, he's been really sweet and affectionate to me all day yesterday and this morning. Maybe because he knows that I wasn't the one who blabbed about the problem he had. <p>[This message has been edited by Sweetpea (edited August 16, 1999).]