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My husband found out about my affair 2 weeks ago, left me and filed for divorce. We have been married over 12 years. I have never thought in a million years that I would be in this nightmare.

I do not know what to do? I want my husband and have no feelings at all for the OM.

Has anyone ever been in this situation? Did the spouse ever come around. Please advise. He won't even take my calls.

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Leslie,

Why not stick to the thread that someone already started for you here, and that you've started to get responses on? On this forum, it's typical to use ONE thread to help you, since that way everyone can work together to give you advice.

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Leslie, please I know you are hurting but calm down and read! People want to help you. You cannot rush this and no one can give you the answer you are seeking.


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Leslie - I posted to you on the thread FF started called "Leslie45 -- Your very own thread." Hopefully, we can keep posting to one thread so it will be easier to find. - Rose


FWS-me BS-H Dday-8/2002 Recovering, still!

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