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I was home for lunch and my son was watching MTV Cribs: Johnny Damon of the Red Sox. It showed his new wife and then showed his kids. I said, "I bet he was having an A with her while he was married". Out of curiousity...I looked him up:


Johnny Damon: what an idiot

His wife's reactions:

His wife speaks

Another article

Wow! What a disgusting...idiot...moron..I am sure I can come up with some other choice DJ's. Oh well.

I feel sorry for his kids.


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Ughhh! How gross!!! I wouldn't trade all the money in the world to be married to that. His current wife must be proud.

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One of the articles indicated that he has already cheated on her..the new wife. I would think she would know about it. Maybe she is okay with that...maybe they have an -open marriage-?? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" /> Or maybe she is of the belief that she is different..that he won't cheat on her??

Wonder how long this one will last. I hope they don't have kids together. He needs to get 'fixed'.


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I also found it interesting in one of the articles how his XW said that he had rewritten the history of their marriage. Lots of typical stuff there.


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Oh c'mon! 9 women while his wife was in labor?! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> Those two are probably just trying to make a buck. Thats the most unbelievable bunch of trash I've ever read.


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I thought it was a bunch of B.S. when I read it and then the XW confirmed it. It is unbelievable, I know. Is it a joke, or an odd form of bragging? I haven't a clue. It is sick though. I would find it doubtful and strange that his XW would be complicit in wanting to make a buck off of his infidelity by lying about the labor incident. Could I really be that gullible. It sure sounded over the top.

I doubt that they were hurting for money..even with the D.
His new house in FL with his homewrecker W wasn't exactly shabby.

The whole story sounds really extreme. He should be ashamed. I would hate for his D's to read his book someday but that is likely to happen.

In his dining room he had a picture that at first appeared to be the last supper but on closer look had him as Jesus in the center and his teammates as the apostles. Down right blasphemous.


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In his dining room he had a picture that at first appeared to be the last supper but on closer look had him as Jesus in the center and his teammates as the apostles. Down right blasphemous.
That bothers me more than the whole bsh*t stuff in the hospital. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/mad.gif" alt="" />


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I don't know, some people will do anything for money. This reminds me of an old "Designing women" episode where Suzanne's ex husband claimed to be baggging everything from coast to coast just to sell his new book. 'ol disgusting JOhnny may have promised his ex a piece of the pie if she cooperates. Anyways, the whole thing is gross, I hope married women all over america throw things at him.


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It appears that he has fully embraced his/the darkside.

It is a shame that he is looked upon as a sports hero to more than a few kids...I'll bet. Certainly, not the best role model.


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How on Earth would the ex wife know what he was claiming when she was in labor? And the Nurse that was helping her during labor was the one and she was about"70" as she claims? Suuure.

This guy sounds like your typical male sex talker: he is so great and women just drops their panties when he walks by.GIVE ME A BREAK.What a slimeball.As an RN,it's highly unlikely all these nurses just forgot about their patients and hopped into the nearest available hospital bed.He systematically offended not only Women but Nurses,his own Wife,the institution of Marriage,men by perpetuating the negative images many of us women have as men only being on the prowl for sex, but he comes across as a big bafoon with a massive ego to boot.He should go crawl back under the caveman rock he came out from.

I am glad that I do not have sons because this man is not someone I would want my sons to even think about with this disgusting attitude.It's almost laughable how demented he is.Sensationalistic too.I am ashamed that he is on my Red Sox team.


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You have to wonder, since his XW knew that he was having sex with the nurse in the bed next to her, that to some point she 'allowed' him to fool around, what(?), to try to keep him (?)...but for her, maybe that was a bit much. I can't imagine being disrespected to such an extent. It really doesn't sound for real. I would guess that she may have been exaggerating that the nurse was in her 70's...maybe mid 40's or 50's... but whatever.

I would hope that most nurses wouldn't be so 'available'. So I would take your word for that OG.

I would think that if it happened then it had to have been in the middle of the night. I could see that this would be some fantasy for him as if it is out of some porn flick. He talks as if he isn't as 'bad' anymore...but then he says he will come out with a sequel including how he has cheated on his current W.


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