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My husband and I have been married 2 years. In those two years, we have had every problem you can think of. And I have also seen that we are not complatible. We constantly fight and argue, which I hate and to be honest I dont feel the way I used to about him. I am not sexually attracted to him anymore- he has let himself gain weight and it doesnt attract me- but of course I havent said that to him. I work on my body and look good, but he doesnt do the same. But I find myself dreaming about other men, exs or whatever, wishing I was with them. I basically have sex with him just to make him happy. I am not happy with him but we are going to counceling to see if we can make it work. I do wish that we had never gotten married. I know that life would suck without him, but the thought always crosses my mind.
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Welcome to MB!
It sounds like there are a lot of issues going on. Can you find a pro-marriage counsellor to see? I would also recommend picking up a copy of His Needs, Her Needs written by Dr. Harley. One need is "Attractive Spouse", so please do not dismiss how you feel when you look at your H.
Read all you can on the site - there is really a wealth of information.
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