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My husband has not spoken to me for 3 weeks since dday. How long will it take him to communicate with me again?

Any time frame?

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Explain "communicate."

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Well I was never a betrayed Spouse but I have known friends who were. You can't put a time frame on something as senitive as a hurting spouse. Everyone handles emotional pain differently. I'm not sure exactly what your situation is but if your husbands feels betrayed and will not speak to you, then it could be that you need to take the first step in facing him and laying it all out(communicating)You may win him back and you may not. Hopefully you care enough about your marriage to build it back to a healthy place.
If you betrayed your spouse, you may have alot of explaining to do.

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What can you do to show your H that you are serious about working your issues that led you to an affair? Sign up for counseling.

What actions can you take to show your H that you respect and value him? Does he need space? Does he need more domestic support? What are his needs that he is letting you meet right now?


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