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Ok....my lawyer called me right before I went home for the holiday weekend. She says my STBX is now wanting "make-up" visitation. How on earth can he ask for that when it was his choice to leave and not see his son. I am so sick of this garbage. He's also not paying anything but the mortgage as of June 1st. I just don't understand.....he's on the bills with me...how can he just not pay them? Ugggghhhhhh! He's also wanting our son to stay with him at his girlfriend's house and there is nothing I can do legally. I am so angry!!!!!! This is so unfair! My STBX is also wanting to go straight to trial instead of mediation......why would he want that????????
Me 35
STBX 39
Dear son 9
Married...15 years (Jan. 20, 1990)
D-Day July 20, 2004.
Divorcing!
What goes around comes around
Sometimes we have to hold our head high, blink back the tears and say GOOD-BYE
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TR,
Just to go back a bit first: did you ever do the deposition? What happened with that threat?
O
BW(me)40
DDay 10/11/03
Divorcing
'The Reformer'- enneagram type 1
~Let Higher Minds Prevail~
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~Life isn't complicated,we make it that way~
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{{{{{TREE}}}}} I am so sorry! Your H is probably the biggest A**hole I have witnessed here on MB. I know that doesn't help you, yet one day you can look back and be so darn glad he is out of your life. I know this is so hard because you are tied to him because of your son. Oh darn, I don't have anything productive to say. I'll just send you hugs and prayers! Maybe I'll send a prayer your FWH's way that he will grow a heart.CV
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Tree -
I've been wondering about you. I imagine that your husband wants to go straight to trial instead of medication because his OW is putting pressure on him.
I know that it is maddening, but you know their relationship won't last, so hang in there.
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I hope a meteorite made from alien sh*t lands on his car Tree.
What a jerk.
I have no advice hon' - he is beneath it all.
Just prayers for you and Cam.
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Thanks for the prayers everybody!
OctoberGirl....My deposition is set for July 5th. I'm nearvous about it. I meet with my lawyer to go over everything on june 23rd. My lawyer is also making him give a deposition.
Thanks CV.....I wish he would grow a heart.
believer.....I was thinking that too. I be OW is putting the pressure on. I read an email that he sent to his brother. It said that him and OW were doing great and that he was trying to set up a meeting between her and my SIL because they "all meet in the minds". ???????? He's an idiot!
Thanks Bob....He is a jerk and I just want this all over with so I can move on with my life and try to find some happiness.
Me 35
STBX 39
Dear son 9
Married...15 years (Jan. 20, 1990)
D-Day July 20, 2004.
Divorcing!
What goes around comes around
Sometimes we have to hold our head high, blink back the tears and say GOOD-BYE
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