OK, I have to take major deep breaths, remembering not to hyperventilate.

FWH had a 15-month EA turned PA with a co-worker, during which all of the 'encounters' took place on business trips.

Of course, upon disclosure, this caused the very thought of business trips to freak me out.

When NC went into effect, FWH worked things so that he did not have to travel overnight as much. In fact, he's not travelled overnight in about 6 months. What a blessing!

Well, I am now fastening my seatbelt as I've just received word that, starting tomorrow he will be staying for 2-3 nights on a new assignment. Not only that, but he will need to travel weekly for several months.

I know what to do. I will have a heart-to-heart with him tonight. I am thinking of meeting up with him while he's out of state (3 1/2 hours away by car).

But, I am not at all happy. The last 6 months spoiled me. I really like having him here. It's also much better for our sons. And, while I can drive out this week, I can't do it every week; kids, job, you all know the drill.

I truly believe NC is in place.

If FWH is to be believed, he has not worked w/XOW since 1 month prior to D-day. And, she lives far, far away (in your state, Crissi).

Yikes. Affairs. The gift that keeps on giving.

(Big sigh)