Pep,

With all due respect, I would really like to know if there is some sort of issue that you have with me. It seems apparent to me that your tone has changed with me the last few months.

I am wondering if, perhaps, it is the comment I made some time back about my parentage.

I in no way mean to offend you. I simply care how you feel and value your opinion of me.

If you would rather discuss this in private, please feel free to e-mail me.

Sincerely,

Froz

redhdgirl@hotmail.com

Honestly, I don't remember any particular comment you have made. Your adoption experience is yours and yours alone.

I am not offended in any way shape or form.

My opinion of the most recent discovery you made on your computer is not complimentary toward your husband and has nothing to do with your reaction to the discovery. I differ in my thinking from most of the other folks helping you sort this one out, and I doubt my thoughts on the matter would be helpful to either of you. Since this is a marriage building forum, my private musings about this photo on your computer are irrelevant to the task at hand. So I decided to be an observer.

Really Froz, I wish you and yours the very best. I don't think I have the right skills to help you out in the way you deserve. My opinions are just that, my opinions .... and if they are not going to be helpful for you to meet your goal of resolving this ongoing dilemma, I best just shut my damn mouth. Donchathink?

You need not give me one single thought or worry. Use all those energies to better your home life and smooth out the troubles you have there. I don't matter in your life, I really don't.

Peace and wellness to you.

Pep<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />

I think you might be transfering someone else's opinion onto me.

Do you think this might be so?

Pep<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />

Pep:

I'm learning so much from you during my PERSONAL RECOVERY!!

I like your "STYLE"....

You're such a QUEEN!!

I am glad you haven't been offended.

I wasn't necessarily referring to your input on yesterday's issue. It's something I have had a feeling about for quite some time now.

If you genuinely feel you have no words of wisdom for me or are ill-equipped to advise me, I do understand. I'm not begging for your advice, here. I do, however, miss our initial conversations and wonder what happened to change that tone.




If it's all the same to you, you do matter to me. Also, it doesn't take a lot of energy on my part. These types of thoughts and worries come quite naturally to me. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />




No, I don't...not trying to lay that burden on your shoulders. I just genuinely wanted to attempt to iron out any issues, if any existed. If you say they do not, then I will accept that and thank you for your time and your honesty.

(but with reference to "someone else's opinion", ssshhhhhh...I don't think anyone here knows I feel badly about myself...it's kind of a secret)