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Need a good no contact letter
#1397208 06/03/05 10:45 AM
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Hi there everyone,

It has been such a longh time since i've been here that i can hardly recognise the names.

Anyway i've been in plan a for about six months now and he still has not left OW. I am planning to go into plan b and he some how feels it so now he wants to talk. He asked me what i wanted because he still wants me in his life. i laid down to him all fo the things that i wanted starting with the no contact letter. He is still not sure if he wants to do that an i am not waiting around for him to decide either.

So in case he wants to send it i need a sample of one.

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Re: Need a good no contact letter
Sindy #1397209 06/03/05 10:55 AM
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I wouldn't give him an example, I'd leave the wording up to him, but the editing up to you. You'll know when it sounds right...and right now, it doesn't sound like his heart is in it... It would be too easy for him to copy words that sound good, but not coming form his own head and heart...

Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here we might as well dance!
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So in case he wants to send it i need a sample of one.

There is a sample letter on the Harley's site where you read about how to survive infidelity.

But, I wouldn't hold my breath if I were you.

He sounds too happy to be getting his needs met by 2 women.

I say Plan B his butt real soon ... without warning !

So, my advice is for YOU to get your Plan B letter and all the pre Plan B stuff in order.

He's gonna jerk you around longer if you let him.

sorry....

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LINK ~~> Carrot/Stick of Plan A

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