Hi. I noticed something in one of your posts and wanted to caution you but then thought Na, he knows what he's doing.

Which I'm sure you do. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

The comment was about going to bars to see bands & meeting girls there.

My WH is a guitar player (really good) and has played many venues. What seems to be the case there 100% of the time from what I've seen time and time again over the years is that when you meet someone in that environment SF ALWAYS is PART of the reason they want to meet a guy in that type of place. Rarely is it about finding a compatible partner to be in a healthy relationship with when she's hangin' out at a bar.

Please, please keep your heart guarded if you start dating someone you met in a club okay? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Sorry if I sound a little rediculous. It's just that I've been around that type of thing pretty much from my teens onward & I'll be 35 next tuesday. Just wanted to throw in a word of caution. (And trust me I'm definitely not trying to sound like I know it all.)

Not that you couldn't meet someone special from a club, but you'd be safer finding someone at a bookstore or somewhere. Know what I mean?

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Going to bars to hear bands and meet girls!!

Did I day that?

If I did, it was in jest. I am not a bar fly, and I am terrible at meeting women in big crowded places full of noise.

I do best in more quiet conditions.