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#1398185 06/05/05 01:13 PM
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I just finished putting up his pictures his website so I thought I would share them.

www.babyhomepages.net/cayden/index.php


BW 24 WS 29 DDAY 5/9/04 (mother's day) H and I found out about OC 5/11/04 Recovery has been wonderful OC Born 1/7/05 (Husband's 1st Boy) Reluctantly have C but isn't constant due to xOW's games H has a D from previous marriage 1/98 (don't see her due to crazy ex-wife) Our first little one born 6/2/05 at 3:23 am 9lbs 2 oz -Cayden Michael- Wouldn't change my life for anything!!!
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What great pictures! I signed your guestbook with my name - Beth W. Just wanted to let you know so you wouldn't be wondering who on earth is that person! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Thanks for sharing your pics - I enjoyed looking at them. (BTW, H looked so happy -- I am glad you two were able to focus on this together and now have a precious little boy)

Congrats again!


Married 10 years Three Children: Son(8),Daughter(6),Daughter(3) DDay - May 6, 2004 False Recovery Begins - June 1, 2004 OW Pregnancy Revealed - June 27, 2004 False Recovery #2 Begins - August 30, 2004 OC born Feb. 25, 2005 Have chosen to have C DDay AGAIN -- June 10,2005 - Found out contact w/OW had continued from Sept-Feb Recovery Begins (again - let's hope it is real this time) July, 2005 C w/OC on indefinite hold while M is worked on
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Gorgeous baby!!!!

And a beautiful mom and beaming proud daddy too!!

Congratulations!!!

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Nothing beats the first few days, weeks, months with a NEWBORN! You are in for a GREAT experience.

He will see everything for the very 1st time and you get to witness it ALL!

Be prepared to video and photo the poor little guy to death. Because you will lol ask my son that knows every single moment of his first 6 months of life its on hours of video lol... what can i say I like to look at them.


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Very precious!! Glad to hear everyone's just fine. Love that little boy with everything you have!


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S-15, S-12, D-born 8/1/04
OC (boy) born 8/25/04
D-Day 8/31/03, 3/1/05
A started 12/02, ended 3/16/05
XOW is married also, we were ALL best friends, were being key word!
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Thanks for sharing! He looks so precious!

I loved the photo of you on the day you left for the hospital! Not a comfortable time for anyone! But, I must say I was very impressed....I noticed you had nail polish on your toes! Now tell me....how in the world could you even see your toes to polish them with "little" Cayden Michael still onboard??!! lol

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Heartmending,

I actually painted my OWN TOES! I know I look just down right terrible in that picture. I had been crying because OW CAME to our FRONT door and talk to my husband about daycare money. She thought I was already in the hospital therefore that makes it ok for her to come to the front door. So when the doorbell rang, I went to it, looked outside and my heart went into my foot. I called to my H and he went out and told her NEVER NEVER NEVER again, come to the front door. So not only do I look HORRIBLE but I had been crying too......lol


BW 24 WS 29 DDAY 5/9/04 (mother's day) H and I found out about OC 5/11/04 Recovery has been wonderful OC Born 1/7/05 (Husband's 1st Boy) Reluctantly have C but isn't constant due to xOW's games H has a D from previous marriage 1/98 (don't see her due to crazy ex-wife) Our first little one born 6/2/05 at 3:23 am 9lbs 2 oz -Cayden Michael- Wouldn't change my life for anything!!!
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He is such a little cutie. I hope you are doing well.

I am keepiing you and your family in my prayers. I hope everything else is going o.k.

Enjoy this time with the baby.


BS(me) 27 WS (H) 34 Married 6yrs. Together 9yrs. Stepson-16 Stepson-10 my son-6 OC #1 (G) - 2 OC #2 (G) - 1 DD-#1 6/21/04' #2 7/5/05
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Thank you! =o) I do love being a mom but one thing I didn't realize is that (since I'm breastfeeding) I would be breastfeeding during moment every of his waking moments.
My husband has taken 23 days of leave as well to go and work up north for 2300$ to make up for the money I am not bringing in. He left yesterday and comes home tomorrow for the night but its hard because I know he doesn't want to be up there due to missing out on his little one. *sigh* I too know that he needs to be up there but I have been pretty much a ball of tears since he has left.
The good thing I guess is I'm getting COMPANY TOMORROW!!Didn't think I would be so excited but I got excited to take the trash to the curb tonight. Hehehe......then FRIDAY I'm going out to LUNCH!!! LOL.....its so wierd how your priorities instantly change and what you used to do in your spare in, now you realize its a priviledge! Take care everyone!


BW 24 WS 29 DDAY 5/9/04 (mother's day) H and I found out about OC 5/11/04 Recovery has been wonderful OC Born 1/7/05 (Husband's 1st Boy) Reluctantly have C but isn't constant due to xOW's games H has a D from previous marriage 1/98 (don't see her due to crazy ex-wife) Our first little one born 6/2/05 at 3:23 am 9lbs 2 oz -Cayden Michael- Wouldn't change my life for anything!!!

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