WS is still trying to "figure things out". Looking for a place of her own for a while. I know if things are ever to be able to be worked out and the marriage is to be saved that I need to give her her time. this is difficult but I guess it is the only way right now. The question becomes that we are still seeing or talking at least once a day. Mainly she comes by to see the kids, get more things, Laundry etc. Should this be approached in some way? I feel that if I put some demand as to doing any of this it will only push her further away. By demand I guess I mean Should we arrange for her to see the kids at a neutural sight, should she have to do her laundry out of the house since she is deciding to take this time to figure things out. Suggestions

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