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You know what weapon you have, don't you Alph?
You can get OW to LB ... just by behaving wifely!
the perfume ... good one, no?
call YOUR HUSBAND whenever you feel up to it .... even if the witch answers the phone .... YOU spray your literal and NONliteral "wifely scent" all over YOUR HUSBAND!!! .... and she will be jealous and LB ... it's bound to happen sooner or later ... make it sooner
he's going to see that she not only wants to get rid of you from YOUR HUSBAND'S life, but also rid him of the adorable mini-Alphs as well .... *shocking*
I've talked to many single OW's over the past 9 years of our recovery Alph, and this is what they think during their A with a MM with children .... MM's first priority ought to be OW .... bet on this and it will show her true character to YOUR HUSBAND ....
she mouths this "The kids will adapt" ... but behaves this way "You're MINE first .. and then the kids can have you."
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I have an online prepair long distance call service (with no minimums or service charges) that only charges 2.2 cents per minute to call the UK. Do you have something like that over there that can make your per minute cost to the US nominal?
Then you just have the SH/MB charges to be concerned with...the exchange rate is in your favor isn't it?
Married 1976
Me:BS
Him:FWS
MB Weekend March 2003
2 S's: '77 & '80, 1 D: '82
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she mouths this "The kids will adapt" ... but behaves this way "You're MINE first .. and then the kids can have you." That's so true. When WH left he said that the kids would be better off if we split up. This wasn't just WH doing fog-talk, it was someone speaking else entirely. It was her talking through his lips! She's possessed him! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> Another thing is that they have lived together, alone, for more than 3 months. She's gotten used to having him to herself. She's never going to want his kids there, I bet. Alph.
Me, BS 37
Him, WXH (Noddy) 40
DD13, DD6
Married 14th August 1993
D/Day 2nd April 05
Noddy left us 3rd April 05, lives with OW (Omelette) 28
Divorce final 6th July '06.
Time wounds all heels... - Groucho Marx
...except when it doesn't. - Graycloud
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Another thing is that they have lived together, alone, for more than 3 months. She's gotten used to having him to herself. their honeymoon's over .... do not enable their privacy any longer time to PUSH BACK warrior mommie on the offensive! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/shocked.gif" alt="" /> [color:"red"] INVADE THEIR SPACE [/color] (in a non-LB way, of course) behave like a WIFE and call your husband because you NEED him and you WANT him ... and you simply feel like TALKING to YOUR husband! rock their boat HARD
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I have an online prepair long distance call service (with no minimums or service charges) that only charges 2.2 cents per minute to call the UK. Do you have something like that over there that can make your per minute cost to the US nominal? I don't mind. WH pays the bill. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Alph.
Me, BS 37
Him, WXH (Noddy) 40
DD13, DD6
Married 14th August 1993
D/Day 2nd April 05
Noddy left us 3rd April 05, lives with OW (Omelette) 28
Divorce final 6th July '06.
Time wounds all heels... - Groucho Marx
...except when it doesn't. - Graycloud
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she mouths this "The kids will adapt" ... but behaves this way "You're MINE first .. and then the kids can have you. YEP! Single OW in my sitch said the same crap. FWH recently brought this up to me. I was able to ask him: "What research has proven that divorce is good for children?" She said it so often to him that he convinced himself that it was fact. OH MY, THE FOG CAN BE SO DENSE!!!! BTW, he eventually came to dislike how she treated her own child. He says he learned: "The type of mother that SHE REALLY WAS" (That is, a "poor, uncaring, selfish" one). YUK!!! Shows the value of PLAN B, being with the OW, 24-7....
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I can call about the house: WH, there's a leak in the roof... WH, we need to get the windows painted... WH, we need to get a new back door put in...
About the kids: WH, DD12 got a great mark in her test... DD5 has a cold, can you come see her? DD12 needs to be taken to so-an-so's house... DD5 needs to go to a party, can you take her...
About me: I have a hospital appointment, you'll have to watch the kids... Can you babysit? Can you babysit again? What about next Friday, too? Do you like this new red dress or do you think it's too tight?
Alph.
Me, BS 37
Him, WXH (Noddy) 40
DD13, DD6
Married 14th August 1993
D/Day 2nd April 05
Noddy left us 3rd April 05, lives with OW (Omelette) 28
Divorce final 6th July '06.
Time wounds all heels... - Groucho Marx
...except when it doesn't. - Graycloud
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I can call about the house: WH, there's a leak in the roof... WH, we need to get the windows painted... WH, we need to get a new back door put in...
About the kids: WH, DD12 got a great mark in her test... DD5 has a cold, can you come see her? DD12 needs to be taken to so-an-so's house... DD5 needs to go to a party, can you take her...
About me: I have a hospital appointment, you'll have to watch the kids... Can you babysit? Can you babysit again? What about next Friday, too? Do you like this new red dress or do you think it's too tight?
Alph. .... and.... be sure to say "I miss my HUSBAND." and "I want my husband home." and "Our girls miss a full-time Daddy"
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go on the offensive
push hard to invade their private space
show interest in your HUSBAND
show passion toward him (even if only verbally for now)
show willingness to fight for THE GIRLS by standing up to EVIL OW who would be a terrible step-mother who does NOT put the kid's interests first
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Edited to add: He just texted me back - says he's sorry he can't make it tonight but he hopes we have a nice time. reply to this ... "I will miss you ... and so will the girls. What can we do to change your mind? We need you with us. Without you, we feel incomplete!." [color:"red"] SEND THIS SORT OF NUKE [/color]
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Pep,
I'm getting there! I wish I had half your nerve, but I'm trying hard.
He shot me down today - couldn't come out to dinner with the girls and me - didn't say why. We are going, anyway.
I ordered that book today, too. I'm going to write something nice in it, and send it to him.
EDITED TO ADD: Our posts crossed, Pep.
Alph.
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Me, BS 37
Him, WXH (Noddy) 40
DD13, DD6
Married 14th August 1993
D/Day 2nd April 05
Noddy left us 3rd April 05, lives with OW (Omelette) 28
Divorce final 6th July '06.
Time wounds all heels... - Groucho Marx
...except when it doesn't. - Graycloud
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Write him a juicy (and I do mean juicy) love letter and mail it to their seedy apartment!
spray your scent all over YOUR HUSBAND
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<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
Alph.
Me, BS 37
Him, WXH (Noddy) 40
DD13, DD6
Married 14th August 1993
D/Day 2nd April 05
Noddy left us 3rd April 05, lives with OW (Omelette) 28
Divorce final 6th July '06.
Time wounds all heels... - Groucho Marx
...except when it doesn't. - Graycloud
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He should have NO DOUBT what your desire is ... that HE come home ... that YOU desire him ....
LEAVE NO ROOM FOR DOUBT THAT HE HAS A WAY HOME
.... this will make Plan B (if that becomes necessary) all the more effective ...
because he will be getting his love bank filled by YOUR PASSION for HIM ... during this phase of Plan A
now that you are stronger....
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I can flirt too, right? I'm good at that. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Alph.
Me, BS 37
Him, WXH (Noddy) 40
DD13, DD6
Married 14th August 1993
D/Day 2nd April 05
Noddy left us 3rd April 05, lives with OW (Omelette) 28
Divorce final 6th July '06.
Time wounds all heels... - Groucho Marx
...except when it doesn't. - Graycloud
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meekness and courtesy are useless for you right now
do not be reserved
be passionate
that may be the only thing OW has over you right ow ... so go for passionate desire and make sure it sticks to him by throwing it and re-throwing it ..... but do not get whiney or needy ...PASSIONATE ALPH is not meek .... she's sexy!
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Pep,
I wish I had half your nerve I learned from my experience that OW was sexy and passionate and unreserved at making sure my HUSBAND knew she "wanted him" ... in "that" way! so guess what I do now? I make damn sure my H's needs for "that way" are more than met... he's a happy camper! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" /> I have sent him text messages that you can not believe! (not to mention using my camera phone creatively) .... and Alph, I am 56 years old! .... This is a life long desire of married men .... to feel that their woman is passionate about them. Not one guy here will argue with me. Right Sir Bob? ~LOL~
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What, no more stiff upper lips?!?!
Just kidding.
I can do sexy too.
Alph.
Me, BS 37
Him, WXH (Noddy) 40
DD13, DD6
Married 14th August 1993
D/Day 2nd April 05
Noddy left us 3rd April 05, lives with OW (Omelette) 28
Divorce final 6th July '06.
Time wounds all heels... - Groucho Marx
...except when it doesn't. - Graycloud
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Alph said: I can call about the house: WH, there's a leak in the roof... WH, we need to get the windows painted... WH, we need to get a new back door put in... This part worried me a little bit. Pep said: but do not get whiney or needy . He does not want the responsibility of a family right now. He wants his fantasy life. I'm afraid calling him about the roof and the painting is not a good idea. Just call because you want to TALK to him. Susan <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
Money can buy you a fine dog, but only love can make him wag his tail.
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I'm concerned that exposure isn't working!!!!
Nothing seems to have happened regarding the school's commission bigwig I called a couple of weeks ago. But then, I have no idea because WH isn't saying anything.
I can't call the bigwig back until Tuesday. I called the school today to get a prospectus. I can get the names of all the heads of departments in the school from that (possibly some other teachers, too). I'm thinking about sending an exposure letter to each of them.
Alph.
Me, BS 37
Him, WXH (Noddy) 40
DD13, DD6
Married 14th August 1993
D/Day 2nd April 05
Noddy left us 3rd April 05, lives with OW (Omelette) 28
Divorce final 6th July '06.
Time wounds all heels... - Groucho Marx
...except when it doesn't. - Graycloud
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