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my wife has challenged me to find 1 marriage that has survived when there has been 13 years of infidelity prior to her revelation 2 months ago. Please can anyone help me?
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Ever read the book "Back from Betrayal" from Suzy Farbman?
Her husband had affairs throughout their marriage until she finally figured it out. They had a rocky road to recovery, but now claim to have better, deeper (faithful) marriage.
Me BS 44
XH 45
M 20 years
D19
D12
DDay 11.29.04
Separated 12.29.04
Plan A 24.02.05
Plan B 10.9.05
Plan D 2.2.06
Divorce 13.6.06
OW - former friend and D12's x-godmother (Skunkypoo)
OWH - philander, XH's former best friend (still shares skunkypoo with XH)
Anger = drinking a rat poison and waiting/wishing the rat would notice you drink it and the rat die from it.
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Check out 2long. It's been 14 years, though that is not exactly a happy story right now.
PD, before divorce was so readily available, there were many, many marriages that survived. Try reading about Edward VII -- an immediate example. And Queen Alexandra remained an adoring wife despite Mrs. Keppel.
I'm not saying it's desirable, but it can and has been done. Often.
"Virtue -- even attempted virtue -- brings light; indulgence brings fog." -- C.S. Lewis
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