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***BREAKTHROUGH***
#1400617 06/08/05 12:05 PM
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W and I had another talk. Told me some things I felt I needed to know. WOW!! what a load off of my mind. I haven't had a bad dream since <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Not that I won't, but just the fact I haven't, what a joy.

Question I have is, how do I know if she just told me what I want to hear? Am I just being paranoid?

She was emotional when she told me, but,we were being open(I think), and she asked me why I needed to know things, So I told her why I felt I did, and she told me, somewhat relunctantly, but she told me.

I just hope it was the truth. Maybe I should just take it as the truth and go on. It has been a good week so far.

The SF is still slow going but hope to work on that end soon.

have other people felt like this, or am I overly excited?

ME 40 WW 40 Married 14y EA 2mos PA 1(12/20) D-day 12/22/04 recovering?
Re: ***BREAKTHROUGH***
hurtnheart #1400618 06/08/05 12:52 PM
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Congratulations, you are getting something that the rest of us are waiting on and probably will never get. As to whether she is telling the truth or making a full disclosure, you will have to make that call. I think that I would be able to look in my WW's eyes and tell but nothing is for sure. As far as letting everything drop and riding the good wave, I hope that you do not make that mistake and have to deal with this again. Work hard on your marriage but keep your eyes and ears open until you are relatively SURE that your are out of the woods and back on track. Once again, congratulations on what appears to be a very good first step toward recovery.
Re: ***BREAKTHROUGH***
hurtnheart #1400619 06/08/05 01:26 PM
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Its all good. Just remember that recover ain't called a rollercoaster for nothin'.

Theres no downside to this revelation. Good for her, good for you.

Take it. Lock it in. Process it and press forward in recovery. You'll have bad days. But les sof them and more of these over time.

{{{HNH}}}

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