My husband got involved w/a woman at work also married w/2 children (same as us). He denied, denied, denied. I had to dig to get the data b4 he would admit to anything. Still provided him proof, still denied...went to counseling, threw him out, got back together, swore he would never communicate...well he speaks to her everyday from his office. she leaves no more msgs on voicemail cause he knows I can brake code, no trace what so ever but he still speaks to her everyday, several times a day. he is totally addicted to this girl and does not want to lose me at the same time. I have been going to see a Dr. to avoid insanity! I am plng on going to his ofc this weekend to install a voice recorder because this is the only way out for me. this guy is nuts and every time I confront him with data, he goes bezerk. Is anyone out there going through the same thing? This has been going on for 2.5 years. I have had enough!!!!! PLEASE HELP!!!

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