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This has been one truly amazing story and I've read it from the first post and waited and waited for updates. I have never read any of your previous posts Coach but it is quite evident you are very much respected and admired around these parts.

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Your daughter got her a good size helping from your gene pool too it seems.


Committed, this has crossed my mind in the last day or two. It has been suggested that daughter was acting a lot like her mom in the father/daughter dance floor episode but I liken it to Coach's very calculated and planned timing of events (exposures, letters, meetings, talks with his wife etc.-all very precisely executed formaximum effect ) since discovery of the whole prof/wife thing. I think daughter did just like paw. She made sure it hit hard and on target.

Coach, I hope this all turns out for the best for all involved. It has sure been a wild ride (with a wedding in the middle of a d-day and all <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" /> ). Best of luck to you.


Edited to add: I just saw the personal link....ummmm....had a funny feeling somewhere in this story way back and now?? it is being felt even stronger...

A scam indeed...a short story played on a MB board? If so, hmmmmm. I hope you get what you have coming to you!

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Yep, same guy. Same picture that he submitted to the MBPhoto Thread.


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Why not just have everything set up for the DV but not file? Stay married but with all the rest of your new plan intact?

Piece of paper my foot. Now you are sounding like Goldie Hawn. She'll be a bird in an open cage...

You aren't honoring your belief in vows and the marital covenant by filing the actual writ of DV. Just give her another chance which is what you really want to do because you still love her and want to believe in her. Maybe the third time is the charm. That is what I am hoping anyway.

Otherwise, DV and move on.


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Coach, I hope this all turns out for the best for all involved. It has sure been a wild ride

Marriedandlonely:

If ONLY you could have posted this post about 5 minutes later...........maybe your JAW would not be hanging open NOW.

Sour... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


Some people just don't get it, they don't get it that they don't get it.

I had the right to remain silent.......but I didn't have the ability.
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Thank you Mrs. Coach.


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You believe easily what you hope for ernestly

Infidelity does not kill marriages, the lying does
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Thank you Mrs. Coach.

I know that this is really "sad" in reality..........BUT GD, Cymance, that made me truly LAUGH MY A$$ OFF OUT LOUD...... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Sour...


Some people just don't get it, they don't get it that they don't get it.

I had the right to remain silent.......but I didn't have the ability.
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Lemonman,
I went and edited....after I saw the ad...something wreaked of a made up story before now....the blood, the drama, how much she must truly love him because of it, the rationalizations, etc. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />. And I stayed out of it until the minute it all came out, but then I had to chime in right before the "unveiling"!! Damn my impatience!

Just like when I call H and say when ya gonna be home? He says "look out the window"!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

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Time for me to get a real life. This is just too freakin' stupid.

It's not even bizarre, it's just freakin stupid.

And to think this sitch took up more energy and time from MB members probably than any other poster probably in the history of MB, when there were real life people who actually who are they say they are, and not some retarded Miami playboy.

I feel like I'm in the twilight zone.

Am I???????

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Mel and Susan and I were "taking bets" about this possibility in emails ... just yesterday as a matter of fact... Mel said ..."it doesn't ring true"

yea Mel!

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Scam...an elaborate story? Do ya think?

The link worked for me. Confirmed.


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Holy Hannah....

Talk about scripted....and the drama....gawd...<gag> <gag>


I thought pepperband was ready to out him this weekend with that other thread....and the one about munchhausen by internet.

The whole dam thing was too scripted and melodramatic...and a part of me wanted to query, but I didn't.

Gonna have to go wipe this egg off of my face now...yuck.

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That wasn't very nice coach.

And yes, you took time away from real people and their real d-days. Shame, shame.


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If I didn't know better I would think you were "putting us on" with your rationalizations above regarding your WW.

Sour... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> [/quote]

Does this count as "suspecting" a scam????????

Sourmale...... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


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Well he is a good story teller.

What I couldn't figure out was why he kept glorifying his wifes disgusting behavior. That part was really starting to get on my nerves, so I quit posting.

I was beginning to think that the both of them had egos waaaay to big for one little ole house, and especially one little ole marriage.

Oh well, wonder who he'll come back as next time.

Makes me wonder who any of all yall are.




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That's because coach doesn't "do" nice.

If you notice in his bio...he does like to write short stories....albeit erotica.

Google him again...see if that name shows up on some erotica website....bet it will.

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Holy Hannah....

Talk about scripted....and the drama....gawd...<gag> <gag>


I thought pepperband was ready to out him this weekend with that other thread....and the one about munchhausen by internet.

The whole dam thing was too scripted and melodramatic...and a part of me wanted to query, but I didn't.

Gonna have to go wipe this egg off of my face now...yuck.

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know what tweaked me?

he described what his 'wife' wore to the wedding "hot pink shrug" ... and I thought to myself "hmmm??? My husband wouldn't know a shrug from a shark ... this is fake!"

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Yep....counts as far as I am concerned.

I see too many people on here that I cannot believe their stories...I would be accusing 80% of them...lol


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Mel and Susan and I were "taking bets" about this possibility in emails


I win! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />

Y'all put my checks in the mail. Gonna buy me a new pink shrug with the money.

Susan <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />


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Well, we all know where he works now! The Tribune Company! And his name is Barry!


Maybe, maybe not!

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