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just kidding about the dog, Susan <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

I wonder why he is reading and not posting. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />


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Hi,

Very longggggg time lurker here. I just had to register.

Please don't feel that this thread has totally lost any semblance of goodness.

For some silly reason, I used Coach's ICQ ad page to make an advanced search for my long-distance-relationship-I-have-crawled-naked-in-broken-glass-eaten-so-much-hardships-for-him-and-WILL-MARRY-NEXT-YEAR-BF.

Needless to say, the result for me had been more than shocking as the exposure on this thread.

My dearest BF, someone whom I have loved with all my might and adored ceaselessly for nearly 4 years is actually Coach's poodle!!

Who would have imagined that a long-time cheating, deceitful, manipulative low-life (Mr. Erotica Sicko, aside) would be busted this way???????

My heart is breaking but I am happy that this thread/exposure happened.

Sorry for the semi-threadjack everybody.

Whoever you are, thank you for the link!

Sincerely,

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Mr. WWW finds it interesting that Coach logged off and warned everyone he'd be gone all afternoon then bam - Cameo33 posts? He may have outted himself and sat back to enjoy the show?

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But why would he out himself?


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Why would he post for a few years and sound so sincere and wise...only to yank our chains and create this elaborate tale?

BTW, I like cats too...I have a sweet 15 yr old terminally ill one...he is especially sweet when he is hungry. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" />


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Why did he do any of this BS? Sociopath with Narcissitic Tendencies? He disappearred for two weeks, maybe he/she was just getting bored. Regardless, his spelling has nearly driven both my wife and I out of recovery. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

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Just wanted to add...we also have a cat, a ragdoll, named Robert E. Lee...Bob for Short...The Confederacy is alive and well and living in Michigan...Who Knew?


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Regardless, his spelling has nearly driven both my wife and I out of recovery. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

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LMFAO !!!!!!!!!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


Some people just don't get it, they don't get it that they don't get it.

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Perhaps someone pulled Coach's info from here, and registered him on ICQ.... not a particularly nice thing to do, of course.

SOMEbody's going to He|| in a handbasket... hope we don't need a bus to get there...

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I wonder weather he/she will sho up later to night?

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Why would he post for a few years and sound so sincere and wise...only to yank our chains and create this elaborate tale?

BTW, I like cats too...I have a sweet 15 yr old terminally ill one...he is especially sweet when he is hungry. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" />

oh dear, she likes CATS and poodles!! Trix, cats are about as "sweet" as rattlesnakes! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> Well, we all have our faults and I love ya anyway, Trix! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Anywho, speaking of "yanking chains," last night Pep asked me what I thought of Coach's thread. My response was:

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Sometimes I wonder if he isn't making half this crap up just to yank our chains. It doesn't always ring true. Like his wife attacking him and biting into his shoulder. I don't know, I have surreal feelings when I read him.

Pep responded that she and Susan "thought so too!"


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SOMEbody's going to He|| in a handbasket... hope we don't need a bus to get there...


bwahahahahahaaaaa! good one, tqt! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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Well, maybe Cameo33 is his wife, and maybe she discovered his ICQ profile, somehow convinced him to stop posting here, and then posted all this stuff as him. Then...to discredit him, she registered as Cameo33 and outed him.

LOL!


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I suppose anything is possible at this point.


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"Virtue -- even attempted virtue -- brings light; indulgence brings fog." -- C.S. Lewis
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I dunno, A.M., the whole thing just never rang true for me, and still doesn't. That line even raised my hackles more because it doesn't ....fit. It has a manufactured feel to it. Who knows?


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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This is the first time I have checked in today - needless to say I am shocked.

Pep, would this be munchausen (sp) by internet proxy????


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The ICQ profile says his 50th b-day was just July 11th. Did he mention this detail? Wasn't he in Boston, reading books and visiting beaches? If Barry is Coach wouldn't that have been a piece of the drama? Maybe he mentioned it - we dunno.

Good night - Looks as though our favorite soap opera is over....when you think of Laura, laugh, don't cry, I know she'd want it that way....unless Coach pops up telling us the ICQ thing was really the hoax...so many layers...so little time

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Or maybe 33 is Laura.

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Whether Coach is "real" or not, I've deleted my posts in the interest of fairness.

We've had fakers on here before, and I just assumed this was a guy who legged it out of town and we'd never hear from him again. It's not fun being hoodwinked -- most of us on here know that -- but that's no excuse for meanness. I think I crossed the line from playfulness to something else.

I can be sharped tongued, and it's easier to say a word than retract it. And I'm too quick on the trigger...or keyboard...sometimes. I'd rather err on the side of kindness, if I have to err at all.


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