Word! I work out every single day. Yoga, weight training, dance, etc. I am in excellent shape, have great endurance, LOL, and I am freakishly flexible. My WH left me for a woman 50 pounds heavier, older, and way uglier. Go figure. But he didn't mind having SF with me just before he left. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />

hey mine admited he had trouble keeping it up with OW.....and I am skinnier than her....wonder what he has to think about to get through it <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />....but don't worry tummy...it does happen....I found myself a wonderful guy....and trust me the waiting is soooo worth it. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smirk.gif" alt="" />

TT, boy, am I ever with you!

Mr Downstairs-way-too-young-for-me came up a little while ago on the pretense of borrowing my phone book. fanning myself Have I told you about his eyes??

My problem aside from the age thing?

I'm no longer a casual sex kind of girl. You and i both know that ANY female...I mean ANY female can go out and get sex. But that kind of sex is like masturbating..but you're just using someone else to do it. Feels good at the time, but really rather empty.

That's one of my concerns with this boy-toy <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> I'm getting hot and bothered here, but do I really want to use someone else to masturbate? Maybe a little, but I know it will make me feel empty afterwards.

Okay, confession time here - and {warning} too much information. I'm 40 and I have never had casual sex - never. Which makes me think, if WH and I end up divorcing, what am I to do? If I wait for another "the one" I could be, well, really old. That's tooooooo long to wait. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> I guess I really shouldn't even be thinking about this now, but aaaagh, I am!

Thanks everyone. The general consensus seems to be it will happen - one of these days. I look forward to the day when i feel at ease in a relationship again, with a worthy partner to keep me warm in bed. Who knows, it may even be my WH?

If he's lucky. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

Nice one Pebbles!

Oh you have got to be kidding? You don't know what the 8-Ball is? Your old enough. Were you raised in the U.S.? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

It's a cheesy novelty gift from the 1970s that was the size of a 12" softball, but filled with dark fluid and contained a multi sided object with answers to deep questions on each side. Some of those answers you've seen here. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />

I've been hit on twice since my WW's A was revealed. But I'm just not interested in anyone. I'm interested in getting some though! I need some time and I'm not divorced. It makes me wonder if WW came back this summer and said I really need you, would I? Should I? I guess I'm too focused on my DS8 who's been kidnapped to Europe and the soaring legal bills! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> That's enough for anyone to lose interest. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

Have you tried the washing machine on spin cycle??? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

You're not really a lingerie model are you?

Aww Geez. I just read the rest of the postings, and all of you frustrated women are not helping the sexual tension here! Of couse Aislinn threw a little cold water on me with the way too young downstairs boy since it reminds me of WW's OM19 boy toy! Bad girl!!!

I need to go take a cold shower now.... please excuse me.

LOL TT don't worry your in HK and they make all sorts of cheap electrical toys. If you go buy one of those places I would like to place a order for a 5'6" blonde blow up doll with portable air pump and a couple of patch kits. Please don't forget the air pump I will be laughing to hard or to excited because I will have to remember what to do myself to blow the doll up.

If it helps, Sleepless, the age difference between me and my neighbor is 7 years. IE, he's not a teenager...grin.

Let me tell ya, he's laying it on thick.

Is it reasonable for me to assume he just wants to be friends and hang out? I said that to a male friend of mine and he laughed at me.

friend and hang out....lol....let me climb up off the floor and back into my chair....
aislinn, you know exaactly what he wants...what do you want should be the question at large...

Sleepless - I'm British and we don't have an 8-ball. And I've led a sheltered life!
RHM - I don't have a clue where to buy such things but do they make blow up boys?
Aislinn - I can feel you leaning towards the 'dark side' ...

grin, KA1..yeah, I know. But maybe I flatter myself by thinking more than that? I'm not really "all that" so maybe I'm assuming too much here? It's not like he's had time to be totally bowled over by my sparkling personality!

TT..well, I don't know. I'll tell ya. Our personalities are quite different so even aside from age, not sure this would be a good thing. And how smart would it be to have a "fling" with someone who lives in my apartment building?

But I have to admit...this is extremely flattering and ego-stroking. And those eyes...oh my!

aislinn...are you in the photo thread as aslynn or something close to that?....
and maybe it will be more...if you can handle a little(okay , alot)of TLC knowing that that is all it might be i say go for it......

I am under there as maddy, or maddyk

Your MaddyK...I had no idea <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" />

Eight Ball

here you go TT...the magic Eight ball revealed! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

This thread just cracks me up the attention it is getting. Of course this is why I am getting all the SF I can before we D (if we D?) cuz I know how desperate I can become!

oh maddy think of the fun possibilities tho....if you have an elevator...elevator sex...going up?....have a pool?...pool sex...rub a dub dub maddy and bright eyes in a tub....oh and then there is roof top sex....I mean exciting....maybe he can pretend for a day he's your gardener...ok i've been watching too much desperate housewives and been away from my owm boyfriend too long..... @ _ @

Let's review about the 7 year younger guy. Since he's not a teenager, I'm relieved <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />.

Let's review some facts. Woman have amorous feelings during certain times of the month. Many men think about it daily or more frequently when they're young enough for testosterone to pump. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smirk.gif" alt="" />

Does he just want to be friends and hang out? Is he gay? If not, that's not all he wants. I refer you to the discussion between Harry and Sally in the car on the way from Chicago to New York in "When Harry Met Sally" While the belief that men and women can never be "just friends", is not entirely true, it's more likely for a man who wants to be you friend to maybe want something more.

As a corollary to this rule. I think you may appear more attractive right now for several reasons. You're making yourself more attractive and positive thinking. You are not actively pursuing him since you have other priorities, so you're mysterious and something he might like to "conquer" for lack of a better word.

If I recall your picture, you're a physically attractive woman anyway, so it's probable that you've been targeted.

NOW, since you've obviously been able to lure the younger available male with cute eyes, your WH just may be noticing the same things.

Don't succumb to the neighbor boy for now. But it's nice to be pursued isn't it. I've been hit on by two different women in the last month. It's flattering, but HELLO, I'm still married. I'm still wearing the ring!

Congratulations on a successful Plan A. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />