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Grapegirl, I hope you have found sleep as I write this. I find it amazing how little sleep I actually need these days; how I can keep going on virtually nothing and still function! But yes, how I miss those cuddles. The kiss on the back of my neck before sleep. Spooning. <sigh> My bed seems to me an odd, superfluous piece of furniture now. I hardly sleep in it. No other more interesting activity takes place there. Might just throw the thing out, 'sleep' on the sofa and install a Playstation in the bedroom instead! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> {{{Lonely Lighthouses everywhere}}} Alph.
Me, BS 37
Him, WXH (Noddy) 40
DD13, DD6
Married 14th August 1993
D/Day 2nd April 05
Noddy left us 3rd April 05, lives with OW (Omelette) 28
Divorce final 6th July '06.
Time wounds all heels... - Groucho Marx
...except when it doesn't. - Graycloud
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couldnt sleep either gg..i was on the computer from 240-505...not sleeping really sucks....i agree that some cuddling would help...as much or more than getting ahem'ed
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You ever put dry ice in a coke bottle with some water and cap it real tight?
Thats nothin-......... LOL Where i come from the boys call that DSB.
Me BS 44
XH 45
M 20 years
D19
D12
DDay 11.29.04
Separated 12.29.04
Plan A 24.02.05
Plan B 10.9.05
Plan D 2.2.06
Divorce 13.6.06
OW - former friend and D12's x-godmother (Skunkypoo)
OWH - philander, XH's former best friend (still shares skunkypoo with XH)
Anger = drinking a rat poison and waiting/wishing the rat would notice you drink it and the rat die from it.
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DSB?...spell it out...lol
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DSB = Dreaded sperm Build-up <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/shocked.gif" alt="" />
Me BS 44
XH 45
M 20 years
D19
D12
DDay 11.29.04
Separated 12.29.04
Plan A 24.02.05
Plan B 10.9.05
Plan D 2.2.06
Divorce 13.6.06
OW - former friend and D12's x-godmother (Skunkypoo)
OWH - philander, XH's former best friend (still shares skunkypoo with XH)
Anger = drinking a rat poison and waiting/wishing the rat would notice you drink it and the rat die from it.
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oh...the DTB's....deadly testosterone buildup....
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I dont know what you are all complaining about. AW just looks up at me from the couch..glares... goes owww that hurts, rubs baby foot in belly... and says "ITS ALL YOUR FAULT!!! or DONT TOUCH ME!! " Over rated if you ask me <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" />
W 38ys
H 39 yrs
DS 2 yrs
DD 21 yrs
DS 20 yrs
M nearly 21 yrs
WHO DARES WIN
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I can't sleep. While I was tossing and turning before coming down to the computer, this thread came to mind. I'm sure if I was to be *AHEM*ed, sleep would come a lot easier. Actually, sleep would be much easier if there was someone to wrap their arms around me and cuddle.
Being that lighthouse out on the rocky point, battered by waves is a lonely place to be. One word my friend.....Vibrator.... it helps trust me <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smirk.gif" alt="" />....just take up stock in batteries now.
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I've been alone since WH deployment and he ordered my handy vibe before he left (how ironic!) but i recommend www.babeland.com They have a variety of toys and they have a online customer support to recommend items.
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LOL!!The wonders of the internet!! Can you imagine working in customer support "Where do the batteries go?" "Slow, medium, fast...is there really, really fast?" "How can you tell if its left handed or right handed?" "What is your return policy?"(eewww) "Is satisfaction gauranteed?" "Thanks I needed that!" <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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BS-45 me
WH-42
DS-14 & DD-12
together 21 yrs, married 18.5yrs
"I love you but not IN love with you" speech 6/3/04
D-Day 2/25/05; WH moved out 3/15/05 & back too soon 3/22/05...He left again 5/8/06
5/25/06 Plan B.....NC letter 6/18/06
Recovery finally began Jan 2007
We are IN love again!!!Sept 2007
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EXACTLY ! my view indeed. I just wonder if they have to try all the merchandise out and if so are they taking applications! LOL,
One good thing is I discovered my sexual desires and what turns me on! I know " EEWWW" but WH is thtilled to try it out!
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shouldi, Just to clarify the "eeewww" was for perhaps getting merchandise that was previously used. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/eek.gif" alt="" /> I am all for trying new things. SF has always been very strong between us. I think this is why WH A was EA w/some kissing.
aka-confused42
BS-45 me
WH-42
DS-14 & DD-12
together 21 yrs, married 18.5yrs
"I love you but not IN love with you" speech 6/3/04
D-Day 2/25/05; WH moved out 3/15/05 & back too soon 3/22/05...He left again 5/8/06
5/25/06 Plan B.....NC letter 6/18/06
Recovery finally began Jan 2007
We are IN love again!!!Sept 2007
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confused42,
OH I didnt mean it that way either!
I know what you mean, WH confessed to that was the reason of the A, the lack of a thrill, etc..
But he said it BIT him in the A$$ , he supossedly fell in love with OW because of it! OMG, whatever! (fog talk) Now thats "eeeww"
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It seems like a lot of us were unable to sleep last night. Tried the vibrator, just didn't do the whole job. In the winter, I have a warming blanket on my bed. It makes me feel surrounded and warm. We don't have air conditioning so I just feel bothered and warm at night now.
Maybe tonight will be better...
Grapes are versatile. Grapes can be sour, sweet, sublime as wine and fabulous even when old and dried out.
Me: BS
XCH: Clueless
2-DS: Bigger than me
1-DD: Now also bigger than me!
5/6: Personally served CH with divorce papers
6/6: CH F? wants to time to see if M can be saved
7/6: FCH reenters our lives to work on marriage but secretly signs papers to start divorce...what's that about?
Mediation set for November
Final dissolution in January 2007.
2008 and beyond: Life goes on...
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at least there are toys for you ladies...but i know theydont replace intimacy which is what i miss...i am getting the ahem
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There are toys for men, too. (Other than blow-up dolls!)
They attempt to duplicate key aspects of the female anatomy. As you noted, however, they don't replace true intimacy.
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This thread made me think of this: http://albinoblacksheep.com/flash/bunny.phpI was going to post it elsewhere, but it fit here better <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
Someone throw me a map already!
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Thanks for that - I lOVE that little bunny. Made me laugh at myself! TT
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Hmmmmmm. I had lost interest in sex before I found out about my WH's A(all due to physical pain, sexual aversion) which undoubtedly contributed to the A. Now I am interested, but WH is not(& most likely a good thing as WH is very much in WD). I just want to be able to show him how much I love him. Again, probably best that he's not interested as it will most likely hurt me anyway.
One day though..........
Kim
D-Day May 14th, 2005
Married 16 Years
DS age 8
6 months Plan A
Plan B 10-11-05, H moved back in June 2007, Very False Recovery.
2nd Day-Day 7/7/08 Kicked WH Out.
Plan B for my sanity
"Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things." Robert Brault
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