It's been four months now since I told STBXH that I didn't want to be with him anymore. In the 6,5 years we were together he cheated on me for 4,5 years. He still doesn't think it's "real" cheating because it involved "only" sex with prostitutes and with my best friend, and he never loved another woman, and didn't want to leave me, blahblah... FOG !
A week after I told him it's over he started going out with several other women. Also lot of internet chatting, which resulted in a "relationship" - if you can call it that - with a woman who is a lot older than him. She believes he's too young for her but will "have" him for the time being as she needs a lot of attention and has no-one else for the moment. Apparently she has been an OW for 14 years to some other poor BS, but that doesn't bother H, of course, she's so sweet and friendly... What he really wants is someone younger, so he'll probably dump this woman when he finds a more suitable partner. So they really deserve each other. Such wonderful ethics. Such FOG !
It's so unrespectful of him. He hurt me so much with his A's, which he "regretted so much and would never do again", then he cheated again a year later, and now he can't even wait till I'm out of the house to date and use women once more for his own needs.
And if asked about this, he soooo certain that everything he does is just fine.. that these women he dates aren't truthful to him either, so why would he be?
H was rather friendly towards me before, when he still hoped I would change my mind and stay, but now that he realises I'm really moving out, he's becoming the "poor old me" grumpy sort of person. My new house will be ready in two or three weeks and I'll be very relieved to leave! Just too bad we'll have to "time-share" our dog, the way H is acting now I'd rather just leave and never see him again.
He's not a bad person. But I can't find that person anymore, can't see him through all this bloody no-responsability-for-his-actions-taking FOG !! AAARGH !!
<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> Thanks for letting me vent, you all.
Have a nice day !
