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Oh, and HI JLS!
*waves*
How's the kiddo's and the horses?
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My current thought on the citizenship thing - is that telling her now that I will not attend will give her time to think about it. I know she will beg at first. She will want DD to be there even if I refuse to go - but it will be hard for her to go with DD (without me).
If I then end up going, she can be grateful (fat chance) - and if it's really important, it will put some pressure on her to capitulate (almost no chance).
But it may be my only chance to put pressure on her - and distance myself.
-AD
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*AD looks around, wonders aloud* "Where'd she go?" JLS was right here just a minute ago.
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ok, AD,
But, trying not to project my faults onto you...the thing is, if you say you are not gonna go, and then you go...well that's not showing consistency. My bad, and I don't want it to be yours. I see where you are coming from...
But, won't a Plan B letter let her know that you are not going, if you are not to have any contact. Too iffy, I guess, for your most recent scenario of "what if".
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ok, silly *snickering sarcasticly (cause AD is funny - but not)*
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Not funny? Me? Not funny? Who are you kidding? Everybody says I'm funny! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
Yeah, I know, I'm sooo serious.
Well, OK, gotta make that call - wake up WW to tell her I'm not taking DD to music tomorow. Or, should I just do it tomorrow ('cause I said I would) and then say it's the last time?
What'ja think, JLS.
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la la la.....*tapping foot and sighing*
hope he is at least typing!!!
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Snap decision. I do it tomorow and then say no more.
OK, that doesnt' require any action and I so wanted some action LOL
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I say you call her now and tell her that it isn't gonna work for ya. But offer to do it 2moro, cause you DID say that you would.
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Of course I was typing - and watching TV and reading another thread and cooking and drinking tea and ...
No, I was just sitting here deciding that calling WW at 11:45 would probably precipitate a long long serious of more phone ringing etc and it would be "prudent" to just do the wednesday thing one more time and then stop.
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I so know what you mean about action. I hate making up my mind, finally , about something, and then not being able to follow thru immediately. I never said that I was patient, did I?!
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It's midnight here (almost). I should call?... to tell W something she's not going to like? You don't know my WW. She will probably blow a gasket - then she will start going on and on about something. Eventually I will hang up on her. Then she will call back repeatedly until I eather turn off the phone or answer. No, not tonight.
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yeah, i would probably do that too <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> And I would be mad that you were gonna put me in a predicamnet with DD!
And sorry i am such a slow typist!!!
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Same time here. Aren't you in **** (protecting ADs secret)? Whereabouts? My Mom's from there.
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oooh great. Now I killed ADs thread.
HAAALLLOOOO. Did you go to bed?
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I'm in <AD's secret home>
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Sorry, I was reading 2Long's thread. Redhat was there and I had invited them both over here, but they never showed. They're still spitting wisdoms at each other over there.
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Hmm, ******? I dunno. I have relatives still in *****.
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