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I'm here...just got in from the beach as it is gorgeous outside!!!
Me: 28 yo Faithful wife Him: 31 yo WH
Married:6/17/01, together 5 yrs D-Day:5/22/04
His Affairs: w/coworker fall 03 and current with '03 HS grad he met while chatting via webcam online; they now live together 1/4 mile from me. WH admitted to missing me & not loving OW the same way he loved me 4/05. Divorce papers were filed 12/04 and I am having a hard time accepting it as I know we could weather this storm, rekindle our friendship, and move towards great things in love and in life.
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kjb- Very kind note to him, but I doubt it will get through. In fact, most of us will take advice from a complete stranger sooner than listening to the ones we love. You are wasting your time and energy trying to help this man...not that he CAN'T change, but that you will most likely not be the impetus for it. Put your energy to better use... Also, stop telling me about how gorgeous it is there...it has been close to 100 degrees here lately. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> TM
BH (Me) 32,
WW 38
no kids
been together 14.5 yrs.
married 9
D-day 12/5/04
D final 11/23/05, she got it all...I just wanted out.
Done with her...selfishness is not a virtue
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kjb- Very kind note to him, but I doubt it will get through. In fact, most of us will take advice from a complete stranger sooner than listening to the ones we love. You are wasting your time and energy trying to help this man...not that he CAN'T change, but that you will most likely not be the impetus for it. Put your energy to better use... Also, stop telling me about how gorgeous it is there...it has been close to 100 degrees here lately. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> TM Yeah, I am guessing WH's sudden interest in me and friendly gestures were merely a result of his knowledge of the interview being given by the background investigators determining his "cop" potential. Everytime I have written anything with substance to WH, he dodges the bullet, pretty much ignoring everything I have to say. I think the mere thought of his actions towards me reminds him of how much of a d*ck he is so he avoids confrontation with me all together. Kind of funny since he said at one point he really wanted to remain friends....yeah right. Last time I looked up the definition of a friend, it didn't include ignorance. Enjoy that Texas summer heat!!! Tri Nationals are in Kansas City in August so I am trying to do a lot of my training in heat...actually wish San Diego was warmer sometimes! I can't complain though as the weather is near perfect year round..they don't call San Diego "America's Finest City" for no reason. Muels
Me: 28 yo Faithful wife Him: 31 yo WH
Married:6/17/01, together 5 yrs D-Day:5/22/04
His Affairs: w/coworker fall 03 and current with '03 HS grad he met while chatting via webcam online; they now live together 1/4 mile from me. WH admitted to missing me & not loving OW the same way he loved me 4/05. Divorce papers were filed 12/04 and I am having a hard time accepting it as I know we could weather this storm, rekindle our friendship, and move towards great things in love and in life.
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