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worse comes to worse if the military will "turn there head" say one simple statement...."fine i'll go to the papers" and that will get there a$$es in gear. They cannot afford the bad publicity. Michelle I am very proud of you...your doing great...you will need all the strength you can muster now and it's good you have people in your corner to support you. *hugs* Be strong for your children...try to focus on them it may help you...the dreams will eventually go away...i know I had the worst nightmares too.

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Thank you all. Today has been tough. I am just hanging. Just the thought of finally confronting him this weekend is keeping me together.

I really have 1 more night to endure with the possibility of them going to my house. I hope he doesn't do it. I'm trying to stay focused. And stable. I'll post after I get back from the lawyers tomorrow. We'll see what he has to say. The PI should be calling soon to let me know what's going on tonight. And where he is at.

I talked to H today and his thoughts are definitely elsewhere. That digs so deep because I know what he's thinking about. Keep praying. Just posting helps.


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Hmmm... this is all information I did not know myself. My H is military: he is air national guard/air force fire fighter/ the one weekend a month, 2 weeks a year thing. Could he get into trouble as well like this? He 100% admits his A, it ended last year, but there could be more I do not know. I am not saying I would do anything like tell is CO but wondered if, because he is not full time military, could he have these same repurcussions? He is going to Iraq in January. mlhb I am not military and OW is not either.

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I guess you would have to ask the experts on this wonderful forum.

I waiting to see the lawyer in an hour. The PI is sending the info to him now. I think all is in order. I have questions about the exposure and I need it quick so I'm going to end this thread and start another here. I need some fast answers.


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