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He does have a way of presenting him as the "poor victim", and his boyish nature was the very thing that attracted OW.

That's what I meant (but I expressed it clumsily <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/blush.gif" alt="" /> ). I'm surprised he still tries the same tactic on with you!

Thank goodness for the new house! Do you have to move far?

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Nope, it's not far (then again, Belgium is so small you never have far to go <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />) - just 12 miles (20 km) from where I live now. But it does make a lot of difference re. traffic jams - my new house is located a LOT better than my present one. Where are you at in the UK?


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I'm in the NorthEast of England - not far from Scotland really. I've never been so grateful to be so far from London as I have been these last couple of weeks.

We have the Scottish weather here but not the Whiskey! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />

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We have the Scottish weather here but not the Whiskey! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />

Oops not good !
I've been to Fife (Nook of Fife?) three years ago, is that close to where you live ?


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Not very.

I would love to live in Scotland if I could, though.

I've been to Edinburgh a couple of times - what a great city. Wonderful pubs! And other stuff, of course. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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I hope that all UK members are calm and safe...

I'll be gone for a week's holiday with WH and D10... part of the grand finale of Plan A. WH is starting to get surly and spiteful, instead of just distanced and indifferent. I've got my relaxed and happy meds packed.

During our absence my lawyer/friend that is on the board of directors at the bank will put in her demand that WH and skunkypoo get seperated into different branches. She's got some leverage and the top boss will possibly be receptive.

"See you" all in August!


Me BS 44
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M 20 years
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D12
DDay 11.29.04
Separated 12.29.04
Plan A 24.02.05
Plan B 10.9.05
Plan D 2.2.06
Divorce 13.6.06
OW - former friend and D12's x-godmother (Skunkypoo)
OWH - philander, XH's former best friend (still shares skunkypoo with XH)


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Now they've car bombed hotels in Egypt in Sharm-el-Sheikh. 75 people dead so far.
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Makes me so sad.

I feel the world's gone to hell at the moment. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" />

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LIT I wish you a happy holiday....glad you have your meds with you <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

Why don't you and DD bury WH in the sand? Harmless holiday fun <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" />


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Why don't you and DD bury WH in the sand? Harmless holiday fun <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/tongue.gif" alt="" />

Yeah, and leave him there as the tide comes in...

<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

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Haha you could give him big sand-breasts.
And take pictures of it. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />


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I saw the weirdest thing today.
As I was driving home from Brussels, it had been raining and all the cars were splashing water behind them. The sun came out and hit the water in the exact right angle - resulting in 2-3 ft rainbows behind each car ! It lasted for half a minute, then disappeared.
It made me smile. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />


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Help! Where did everyone go?


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I'm here BH but VERY BUSY !!!!!!!!!!!!


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haha.. I bet you are!


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It just seems I'm the only one bumping this thread these last few days...


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indeed, but Yerp goes on holiday for all of July & August you know that! LOL ! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />


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Yerp ?


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Europe perhaps said in an American accent?

Hi Brownhair....sorry...still here but have kiddies on school holiday.

How long now until you move? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />

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Aha.. Yerp... yes, I get it <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

I hope to move next week !
The flooring is being fitted as we speak.. that needs to dry.. then painting this weekend.. almost there ! Wew !


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