Will wonders never cease!<P>Saturday's are always better because A) I see my H and B) I don't see the OM But for some reason today feels better than most. My H (3wishes) and I talked about making up a contract where we would agree to talk nothing about the past - nothing about his indescretions (sp?) or mine, nothing about anything that's happened before TODAY. We also talked about me writing a letter to the OM (thanks Holly for reminding me about that) because I never did that, and since the affair did not run a natural course there have always been some unresolved issues that filter in when the OM and I do have to see each other. My H and I agreed about both of these things (THAT rarely happens, so I take it as a good sign!) and we also talked about going somewhere tonight, just the two of us and NOT TALKING ABOUT ANYTHING NEGATIVE.<P>I'm feeling more positive than I have in weeks, and I have to say that it feels good. Maybe, just maybe we can actually make love or something WAY OUT THERE like that this weekend <P>~Sheryl <P>------------------<BR>Marriage: the most important contract you'll ever enter into, and the most sacred.<BR>

I'm glad you're feeling better and that you and 3Wishes are communicating better.\<P>Hey! You know something? That last paragraph in your post sounds like a woman who is IN LOVE WITH HER HUSBAND!!!!<BR>

Yippee!!! I'm happy for you. Keep up the good work. I just KNEW you could do it!<P>Lori

This must be a weekend of new beginnings. I am so happy for you! My H and I are having a great weekend too. Here's some advice, it works for me. When you feel like you are about to say something negative, make yourself smile at him. I know it sounds crazy, but it works. It is impossible to be angry with someone when you are smiling at them. You guys deserve a nice weekend. Do something with just the two of you. Go to a nice quiet restaurant, go to movies, date each other! My H and I just bought a new motorcycle and we are going riding later, just like old times! Let me know how things go this weekend.

NB<BR>Fantastic!!!<BR>Did you notice it's a full moon only this time we're all seeing good things?<BR>Keep noticing those good things and keep them in your memory!!!!!

Nb just answered your other post, didn't see this one. I'm glad you're feeling more positive and you're following my suggestions. I just repeated them again on the other post.<BR>Yes writing a letter to the om might give you a different feeling, maybe your H would like to help you with it? - or maybe not, it might be painfull.A decision for both of you.<P>Enjoy this times and believe that they can be more and more part of your lives as things progress.<P>Kat<P>------------------<BR>Each and everyone of us is deserving of a kind word, a gentle thought, and the gift of understanding.

Sheryl,<P>I only have one thing to say:<P>YAY!!!!<P>--andy

That is a meeting of the minds. Wishing you quality time and a full lovebank!<P>TNT

Actually... what I can now say is this:<P>TODAY WAS THE BEST <P>Full love banks all around and everything we could hope and wish for...<P><P>------------------<BR>Marriage: the most important contract you'll ever enter into, and the most sacred.<BR>

new_beginning--<P>I'm glad I could inspire you to write a closure letter to the OM and I'm glad you and your H are going to try and put the past behind you. My H did that a long time ago and NEVER talks about the affair...I think that has helped us to move on and doesn't always remind me of what I did.<P>My H and I did get in a HUGE fight on Saturday...it was our first big fight for a while. I could almost feel my love bank diminishing...I was actually thinking that while we were fighting. (I think I'm getting a little to into this love bank thing.) We've been trying not to love bust...but I guess sometimes you just slip up. For a moment, I almost wished I didn't send the OM that letter. But, then I realized that one fight isn't going to make me want to run back to the OM to momentarily (sp?) make me feel better.

I'm with Andy on this.....<P> YAY!!<P>Hugs to you both and keep things moving forward!!!!<P>Sheba